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富阳一男子以为得了艾滋跳楼自杀
2011-01-21 14:12 来源： 富阳新闻网 记者 何芳芳 “市民记者” 钱生华 实习生 周弘 编辑: 刘方苹
1月18日下午3点多，新登的小孙从桐庐一幢高楼跳了下来。几乎与此同时，他的亲友们收到了他群发的一条短信，也是遗书，短信上说：“我感觉自己得了艾滋病，精神压力太大了，我受不了了，我走了。”
小孙，并不是他的名字。虽然他的遗体已经在19日火化，但他的家人依然不愿意让世人去猜测他生前的任何信息，所以这次报道连姓都是化名。家人的要求，我们都能理解。
小孙的事，我们是通过他妻子的舅舅得知的。他住在新登镇，今年33岁，儿子刚满月不久。他在一个月前就常跟老婆提起，说桐庐有一幢楼有19层高。
他的舅舅说：“这孩子常夸大自己的病情，我们都去杭州疾控中心查过了，他根本没有得这个病啊。以前，他做一次肝功能检查，指标有两个加，他就觉得得肝癌了。做胃镜，有炎症，他又觉得自己得胃癌了。总之，他就是很担心自己病情严重，很恐慌。我想，他会走这一步，不是身体上的病，而是心病。”
医生说：疑病症，亲友如何面对
市第三人民医院院长沈旭明说，小孙的症状在临床上称为“疑病症”，当然“对于死者，我们出于尊重，不会妄加判断。可是，假如你身边有这样的人出现，应该意识到这种心理状态需要亲朋好友的关心和排解，甚至寻求专家的帮助。”
“疑病症”最典型的表现就是害怕和怀疑自己得了重病，反复就诊仍不放心，整个心身被由此产生的疑虑、烦恼和恐惧所占据，影响正常的工作生活。
沈旭明说，亲友的帮助是关键。当面对病人的痛苦时，不要总是说“医生都说了，没事的”、“不是去医院看过了嘛”等话语，而要耐心倾听，并坚决地表示理解、认可，假如他感觉到你并不理解他，就无法听进你的任何劝解。你可以一边听一边说：“假如我碰到你这种情况，我也会这么想这么做的，但是，我们可以一起想想办法。”当你们站在了同一阵营，他获得认同感，你的意见建议也许还能起到作用。
那么，该给他们怎样的建议呢？
首先，不要看有关医学卫生的书刊和其他宣教资料，这是疑病症心理治疗的重要原则；第二，改变四处投医问病的习惯；第三，杜绝经常自我注意、自我检查、自我暗示的不良生活习惯，无根据的担心疑虑，本身就是一种不良的心理因素，是诱发多种身心疾病的导火线。
Fuyang AIDS a man that had committed suicide
2011-01-21 14:12 Source: Fuyang He Fangfang News Network reporter, "citizen journalists" making money intern Hong Zhou Hua Editor: Liu Fang Ping
At 15:00 on January 18 and more, the new board of Komago jumped from a high building Tonglu down. Almost at the same time, his relatives and friends received a text message to his bulk, but also a suicide note, SMS, said: "I feel like I had AIDS, mental stress is too great, I can not stand, I go."
Sun, and not his name. Although his body has been cremated in the 19th, but his family still does not want people to guess his lifetime of any information, so even the name is a pseudonym of this report. Request of the family, we can understand.
Komago thing, we know through his wife's uncle's. He lives in the new town board, 33-year-old son had just one month long. He often told his wife a month ago to mention that there is a building Tonglu 19 storeys.
His uncle said: "This child often exaggerate their own illness, we all went to Hangzhou, CDC checked, he did not have the disease ah. In the past, he did a liver function test, there are two additional indicators, he that have liver cancer. do endoscopy, inflammation, stomach cancer he had felt. In short, he is very worried about a serious condition, it is panic. I think he will take the first step, not the physical disease, and is heart disease. "
The doctor said: hypochondria, how to deal with family and friends
Of the Third People's Hospital, said Xu-Ming Shen, Xiao Sun in the clinical symptoms known as "hypochondria", of course, "For the dead, out of respect we will not make rash judgments. However, if there are such people around you appear, should be aware of this psychological state the concern and need to resolve family and friends, or even seek professional help. "
"Hypochondria" the most typical expression is the fear and doubt their own serious illness, repeated treatment is still not assured, the whole mind and body is the resulting concerns, worries and fears are occupied, affecting the normal working life.
Shen Xuming said that friends and relatives to help is the key. When confronted with a patient's pain, not always say "the doctor said all right," and "not go to the hospital and read the thing" and so on, and to listen patiently and resolutely expressed understanding, recognition, if he felt You do not understand him, can not hear any of your persuasion into. You can listen to the side, said: "If I met you this, I would think to do, but think of a way we can work together." When you stand in the same camp, he received identity, you opinions and suggestions may also play a role.
So give them the kind of proposal?
First of all, do not look at the medical and health information books and other missionaries, this is an important psychological treatment of hypochondria principle; Second, doctors ask patients to change around the habit of investment; Third, eliminate the often self-attention, self-examination, self-suggestion of the adverse lifestyle concerns unfounded fear, itself a kind of adverse psychological factors, is induced by a variety of physical and mental diseases fuse.
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