宋圭武观点120：只有极端自私的人才会说别人发表观点是在表现自己

你在自媒体或短视频上发表一些观点，有些人认为，你这是在表现自己，有这种看法的人其实是在表现自己的极端自私而已。

对一些发表观点人，正确的对待方式是要看人家的观点是不是正确，要围绕人家的观点多讨论。若观点不对，可以批判。若观点正确，则应参考，较好。

另外，确实，一个人发表观点或通过短视频发表观点肯定会让大家看到他或她的名字或面貌，但这也是没有办法的事情。

另外，通过发表观点来表现自己，未免成本也太高。因为要产生新观点，也是一件难事，有时候还需要下大功夫。

问题是，为什么你在自媒体或短视频上发表一些观点，有些人会认为你这是在表现自己？其实深层次问题是，这些人说风凉话，恰恰说明说这些话的这些人其实是极端自私的人。因为他们之所以说这些话，说明他们在潜意识里在极端顽固维护自我的存在，而忘记了应讨论观点本身的问题，其深层本质就是自私过度的一种表现。自私过度的人，往往就是这样。

在现实世界中，很多情况是，一个极端自私的人，有时你做对他有利的事，他也觉得不舒服。比如，你提一些新观点，或在短视频上发表一些观点，而且这些新观点对他也有利，他也会觉得不舒服。为什么他不舒服，因为这些新观点不是他提出的，他嫉妒，心里必然不舒服。一个极端自私的人，必然嫉妒心也是极强的。另外，一个极端自私的人，必然也是鼠目寸光的。因为对他有利的事，他也看不到。面对这种情况，在一个极端自私的群体里，要创新必然很难，创新者往往头破血流，因为要受到极端自私者的合力侮辱和打击。所以，在一个极端自私的群体里，只有守旧者，也许还可以苟活一阵子。 

从长远看，没有创新，必然没有前进的动力，所以，一个极端自私的群体，本质是无可救药的，在这样的群体里，所谓存在，必然是悲剧的循环。

好，谢谢，谢谢。

Song Guiwu's Viewpoint 120: Only extremely selfish people will say that others express their views to show themselves

When you express some views on we media or short videos, some people think that you are expressing yourself. People who have this view are actually showing their extreme selfishness. For some people who express their views, the correct way to treat them is to see whether their views are correct and to discuss more about their views.If the views are wrong, they can be criticized.If the views are correct, they should be referred to, which is better. In addition, indeed, a person expressing his or her views or expressing their views through short videos will definitely let everyone see his or her name or face, but this is also something that cannot be avoided.In addition, to express oneself by expressing views is too costly.Because it is also difficult to produce new views, and sometimes it requires great effort.The question is, why do you express some views on we media or short videos, and some people think that you are expressing yourself?In fact, the deep problem is that these people say sarcastic things, which just shows that these people are extremely selfish people.Because they say these things, it shows that they are extremely stubborn in their subconscious to maintain their own existence, and forget to discuss the problem of the views themselves. The deep essence is a manifestation of excessive selfishness. People who are too selfish tend to be like this.In the real world, in many cases, an extremely selfish person sometimes feels uncomfortable when you do things that are beneficial to him.For example, if you propose some new ideas or express some ideas in a short video, and these new ideas are also beneficial to him, he will also feel uncomfortable.Why is he uncomfortable? Because these new ideas are not put forward by him. He is jealous and must feel uncomfortable.An extremely selfish person must have a strong sense of jealousy.In addition, an extremely selfish person must also be short-sighted.Because he cannot see things that are beneficial to him.In the face of this situation, in an extremely selfish group, it is certainly difficult to innovate. Innovators often bleed head-on, because they will be insulted and attacked by the combined force of extreme selfish people.Therefore, in an extremely selfish group, only the conservatives may still survive for a while.In the long run, there is no innovation, there is no motivation to move forward. Therefore, an extremely selfish group is inherently hopeless. In such a group, the so-called existence is a tragic cycle.OK, thank you, thank you.