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北京一对男同性恋者举行婚礼 誓言不离不弃
2011年01月23日 08:39 来源：国际在线 作者：李秋萌
昨晚，位于(北京市)潘家园地区的某酒店内，大文和小强(均为化名)举行了同性婚礼。京城彩虹志愿者工作站负责人、有着6年艾滋病防控经验的肖冬表示，随着男男性传播成为感染艾滋的主要途径之一，以“婚姻”的方式维系两人关系，或者能在圈内起到“榜样”作用，减少同性恋者的性伴侣。
肖冬表示，因为我国的同性恋婚姻尚处法律空白，因此缺少法律关系维系的同性恋者往往会有多个性伴侣，或者经常改变性伙伴，且不采取安全的性行为，这导致艾滋病传播的可能性大大提高。“在我认识的四五千名同性恋者中，已有约180人感染了艾滋”。
“在当下艾滋病高流行的形势下，任何一种有效的防艾方式都是应该尝试的。”肖冬希望，这场“婚礼”能给同性恋们起到一个榜样的作用。由此，本想低调搞次群体聚会的大文和小强也不得不高调亮相，“被结婚”。
昨晚8点整，这场京城特殊的婚礼正式开始。因为是私密性的聚会，来参加婚礼的均是来自同性恋团体的男“同志”。在众人的掌声和欢呼声中，两人携手走上10米长的红地毯。大文笑得坦然，小强则略显拘泥。为了给小强鼓劲，大文紧紧搂着小强。“幸福啊，也够大胆的”。
“你愿意接受他成为你的爱人，不论富贵或者贫贱，不论是健康或者疾病，都不离不弃，相守终生么？”主持人话音未落，小强已羞涩地扭过头，不好意思地笑笑，大文见状马上抢答道，“我愿意。”“我也愿意”，小强随后答道。
随后，证婚人肖冬向两位新人颁发了“结婚证”。“结婚证”的外观和内容均与普通《结婚证》相似，内页上贴有两人的大头贴合影，手写着新人双方的姓名、星座，在一段相守终生、不离不弃的结婚证言上，盖有“中国幸福婚姻委员会”的大红章。
60%艾滋病感染是男男性接触所致
性传播是艾滋病传播的主要途径之一，其中，60%的感染者是不安全的男男性接触所致。本市自1985年报告首例艾滋病病例以来，报告的艾滋病病毒感染者和病人中经性传播呈明显上升态势，去年则达到79.97%。去年底，北京市卫生局公布，本市新增的1233名艾滋病毒感染者及患者中，男女比例为7.62:1，男男同性性行为的比例上升尤为明显，明显高于异性传播所占比例。
肖冬表示，一旦在某个群体中，艾滋病的感染率超过5%，那么就会导致传播风险大大提高，因此，在无有效措施约束同性恋者们的多性伴行为前，除通过“婚姻”方式稳定两人关系外，希望政府在采购时，能多采购发放可以有效过滤艾滋病病毒的高阻隔的安全套、杀微生物剂等，“将治疗的钱投放在加强预防上，效果无疑会更好”。>>故事
“我们想就这样稳定下去”
大文是在3年前发现自己的同性性取向的，但当时的他已为人父。“虽然很苦恼，但一旦知道了，就很难再隐瞒下去”，大文说，自己在做了一段时间的内心斗争后，决定向妻子坦白。他向妻子提出离婚，但妻子为了保持家庭的完整，给孩子完整的父爱和母爱，竟选择了维持现状，不离婚。
大文是京城著名同性恋群体——“鲨鱼”的组织者，他组建的10多个QQ群里目前的成员已有近千人，他几乎每天都会上网，登录QQ，为同性恋者们答疑解惑、安排活动。一周前，大文和河南男孩小强在一次聚会上相识。
“他是个体贴的人，比我以前认识的都成熟，我们想就这样稳定下去”。在小强看来，结婚只是一种形式而已，“责任是建立在爱的基础上的，就算不举行婚礼，我们也会在一起”，大文说，现在社会的开放程度已提高了很多，并不会刻意隐瞒自己的“同志”身份。(记者李秋萌)
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Beijing held a pair of gay marriage vowed to never betray
At 08:39 on January 23, 2011 Source: International Online of: Li Qiumeng
Last night, in the (Beijing) Panjiayuan areas within a hotel, large text and small strong (both his real name) held a gay wedding. Beijing Rainbow volunteers responsible workstations, with 6 years experience in AIDS prevention and control, said Xiao Dong, with the MSM spread HIV to become one of the main ways to "marriage" means to maintain their relationship, or in circles act as a "role model" effect, reducing sexual partners of homosexuals.
Xiao Dong said, because gay marriage is still the law of the blank, so the lack of maintenance of the legal relationship of homosexuals often have multiple sexual partners, or frequently change sexual partners, and do not take safe sex, which leads to the possibility of the spread of AIDS greatly increased. "I know four or five thousand homosexuals, about 180 people infected with HIV."
"In the current situation of high HIV prevalence, any method is an effective AIDS prevention should try." Xiaodong Xi Wang, this "wedding" to give them to play a gay role model. As a result, low-key out of the sub-groups to large gatherings had to text and small strong high-profile appearance, "was married."
At 8 o'clock sharp, the capital of this special wedding began. Privacy because it is a gathering to attend the wedding are the men from the gay community, "comrades." In the crowd applause and cheers, the two 10-meter long hand onto the red carpet. Big Man laughed frankly, little strong, slightly stickle. In order to give small strong and encouraging, clutching a large paper Xiaoqiang. "Well, ah, bold enough."
"Are you willing to accept him as your lover, whether rich or poor and lowly, either health or disease, are stubbornly persists, spend a lifetime it?" Moderator voice hardly ever, Johnny has turned round shy, embarrassed smile laugh seeing immediately answer in large text, "I do." "I do", Johnny then replied.
Subsequently, the witness Xiao Dong awarded to the two new "marriage certificate." "Marriage certificate" look and content to the ordinary "marriage certificate" similar to the two men inside had posted a photo ID, pen name of both the new constellation, spend a period of life, and never betray the marriage testimony on the cover of "happy marriage Commission of China," the red chapter.
60% of HIV infections are caused by MSM
Sexual transmission is a major route of HIV transmission, of which 60% of those infected are due to unsafe MSM. The city since the first reported AIDS cases in 1985, has been reported infected with HIV through sexual transmission and patients showed a rising trend, it reached 79.97 percent last year. Late last year, the Beijing Municipal Health Bureau announced that the city added 1,233 HIV-infected persons and patients, male to female ratio was 7.62:1, the ratio of men and male homosexual sex is particularly evident increase was significantly higher than the proportion of heterosexual transmission .
Xiao Dong said that once in a group, the AIDS infection rate of more than 5%, then it will lead to greatly increased risk of transmission, therefore, bound in the absence of effective measures to homosexual behavior are multiple sexual partners before, except through the "marriage" stable relations between the two methods, the hope that the Government procurement, the procurement can be paid more than the AIDS virus can effectively filter barrier of condoms, microbicides, "will treat the money spent on strengthening prevention, the effect will undoubtedly be better" . >> Story
"We want to just go steady"
Big Man 3 years ago found himself in the same-sex sexual orientation, but then he has a father. "Although very distressed, but once you know to go hard to hide," said Big Man, they are doing an internal struggle for some time, decided to confess to his wife. He filed for divorce to his wife, but his wife in order to maintain the integrity of the family, the children's father and maternal complete, actually chose to maintain the status quo, not divorce.
Big Man is the capital of the famous gay community - "Shark," the organizers, he formed the group in more than 10 current members of the QQ have been one thousand, he was almost every day online, log on QQ, Q & A Solution for homosexuals who confusion, arranged activities. A week ago, large text and small strong Henan boys met at a party.
"He is the individual who posted, than I used to know all mature, we want to just go steady." In the small strong view, marriage is just a formality, "responsibility is built on the basis of love, if not the wedding, we will together," said Big Man, the openness of society today has improved a lot, does not deliberately hide their own "gay" identity. (Xinhua Li Qiumeng)
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