被确诊患上了艾滋病,他却依然无法克制欲望


被确诊患上了艾滋病,他却依然无法克制欲望

 
 
 
 
 
被确诊患上了艾滋病,他却依然无法克制欲望
 
真有“万箭穿心”的感觉
 
浙江在线健康网 health.zjol.com.cn  2010年08月13日
 

  省卫生厅近日报告,今年上半年全省艾滋病病人比去年同期上升了147.9%!急骤上升的人群是男男同性恋!

  一定不是巧合,昨日和前日连续两个晚上,我以前认识的一位“同志”在网上与我聊到半夜,他说“自己已是万箭穿心”,因为被确诊为艾滋病病人,因为即使这样,他仍然无法克制自己。

  我也无法入睡。打开电脑,突然杭州某网络论坛上,一幅照片映入眼帘:两个名校毕业的帅哥相依相恋,笑得很灿烂。

  我电话“搔扰”了一位专家,浙医一院精神卫生科许毅。他近20年来一直在研究“同志”现象。他告诉我说:同性恋不是一种疾病,人群中发生的概率为3%~5%。研究发现,男孩大脑开始性分化那个阶段,如果其体内雌性激素偏高,将来的性取向就会喜欢同性。

  杭州疾病预防控制中心工作人员告诉记者,目前社会上对同性恋者已经有了针对性的干预措施:一是在校园、酒吧扫荡式防艾宣传,二是直接免费提供安全套。

  他的倾诉

  一脚踏进G圈

  另一脚踏入A圈

  我和“同志”小朱认识是因为以前写过的报道。小朱说,自己和文中的主人公有极类似的经历,后来,我们一直网上联系。前天、昨天连续两个晚上,小朱跟我讲他的故事。

  “我现在真有万箭穿心的感觉。”小朱说。

  我见过他,小朱很帅,在人群中绝对是出挑的。这是记者印象中多数“同志”的特点,很文气、爱漂亮,或许还有点自恋。去年他被确诊了“A”(AIDS艾滋病)。

  小朱28岁,妻子漂亮,宝宝3岁,原本是个让人羡慕的三口之家。

  可婚姻下面的暗涌,外人不知道。小朱说,自己从小就喜欢男孩。“我其实就是女孩心理,跟你一样喜欢帅哥,看到喜欢的会心跳加速。”

  只是因为外界的种种原因,小朱从没把自己的秘密透露给别人。压力太大了,小朱强迫自己“改正”。改了几年,他觉得自己改好了。他认识了一个很喜欢自己的女孩,跟他结了婚,不久以后又有了孩子。

  可小朱内心的渴望一直压抑不住。“我以为我改好了,其实根本没有。这东西根本改不掉。后来我跟老婆分居,但她不知道是这方面的原因。”

  小朱说自己忍不住。在酒吧,在网上,他找到了杭州一个地下小圈子,同志圈子。跟他们在一起,他才觉得自己“活着”。

  “你知道我们这些人,没有几个敢出柜(承认自己是同性恋)的,就是因为这个群体受人歧视太多,大家都在地下,随机性很强,也很乱,其实也很痛苦。”小朱说,自己一直很想找一个长久的伴侣,心仪的碰到过,但没有坚持下来。这个圈子诱惑多,不像异性恋有婚姻的约束,同性伴侣很不稳定,“出轨”的相对多。

  他说,圈子还有一句话:“一脚踏进G圈,另一只脚也就踏入A圈。”这里的G圈说的是同志(GAY),A圈说的就是艾滋病。

  小朱说,治病的过程中认识了一些病友,他们有的人后悔,有的人绝望,有的人自暴自弃想故意把A传给别人。小朱说自己也经历过这些思想斗争,现在有时候也做做志愿者做同伴教育,病友有了极端的想法,他就去劝一劝,开导开导。他对身边“同志”的提醒就是,一定要保护自己,保护身边的人。

  专家如是说

  我省实施

  “1+2+3”防控策略

  艾滋病预防控制专家潘晓红对记者说,我省每天都有一个新的艾滋病病毒感染者出现。今年年初,杭州市疾控中心公布对1532例男男同性恋者调查结果:3年内艾滋病感染上升6.5%,梅毒上升4.5%。如果不加控制,同性恋这个群体带来的艾滋病感染率可能达到总感染率的50~60%。

  针对目前的状况,我省提出应对“1+2+3”艾滋病控制策略:策略1针对一般人群:关注安全的健康教育,减少危险行为;降低恐惧与歧视,促进检测和感染者关怀。策略2针对高危人群:行为干预;HIV(艾滋病毒感染)检测与咨询。策略3针对HIV阳性人群:防止把艾滋病毒传给别人;对感染者和病人进行及时治疗。

  科学如是说

  男同性恋

  雌激素是常人3倍

  对一个男人来说,“为什么好端端的女人不喜欢?”浙医一院精神卫生科主任医师许毅,研究了近20年。

  许毅发现了一个有趣的现象:在诺贝尔奖近100年的历史中,自然科学领域的得主没有一个是同性恋。另一方面,在音乐、时装、美发和设计界同性恋集聚,比如早已公开同性恋身份的时装设计大师拉格菲尔德(香奈儿设计师)、乔治·阿玛尼、范思哲。

  显然,不是因为做了涉及的职业,才让他们拥有超凡的才能。而是他们与生俱来的审美与动手能力的平衡,才让他们在设计界脱颖而出。许毅经过研究发现,男同性恋者的雄激素只有正常人的2/3,而他们的雌激素却高达正常人的3倍,这就使他们同时拥有男人的动手能力和女人的语言及审美能力。

  为了证实这一现象,许毅做起了动物实验,他要通过控制激素水平,把正常的小白鼠改造成同性恋。在实验室里,许毅把新生老鼠用大量雌激素覆盖,等长大后观察行为,结果他成功了。

  “他”爱上“他”

  基因起作用

  科学研究发现,双胞胎中的一人若是同性恋,另一人是同性恋的可能性比常人要大。这说明了基因在人们是否会爱上同性之人这个问题上起到了一定作用。尽管目前科学家还没有找到“同性恋基因”,不过他们一致同意先天因素在这个问题上和后天影响具有同等重要的作用。比如家中排名的伯仲叔季会影响男性的性取向。亲生兄长越多的男性越可能是同性恋,这可能是连续的男胎影响了母亲子宫内的荷尔蒙平衡,因此同性恋就诞生了。

  人和动物的同性恋或双性恋并不仅仅是基因表达、性腺分泌性激素和性激素代谢的结果,环境的影响也是很重要的。例如,关在动物园笼子内的金翅雀如果雄雀的比例太少,雌雀的同性恋现象就会增多,但如果把它们都放到大自然中去,这种现象又会减少。

来源: 浙江在线-钱江晚报 作者: 记者 王蕊 编辑: 郑宁
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    Really was the "Oath" feeling

    Zhejiang Online Health Network health.zjol.com.cn 2010 年 08 月 13 日

    Provincial Health Department has reported AIDS patients in the first half of the province over the same period last year increased by 147.9%!
    Abrupt increase in the population is male gay!

    Certainly not a coincidence, the day before yesterday, and two consecutive night, I had known as a "comrade" in the middle of the night online and I talk to, he said, "is the Oath of their own," because the patient was diagnosed with AIDS, because even if
    In this way, he still could not restrain myself.

    I can not sleep.
    Turn on the computer, suddenly a network forum in Hangzhou, a picture comes into view: a graduate of two prestigious dependent handsome in love smiles.

    I call "harassment" of an expert, Zhejiang Medical Branch Xu Yi a mental health hospital. The last 20 years he has been studying the "comrades" phenomenon. He told me: It is not a disease, the population probability of 3% to 5%.
    Study found that boys begin sexual differentiation of the brain that stage, if the body of high estrogen, the future will be like the same-sex sexual orientation.

    Hangzhou CDC staff told reporters that the current society of homosexuals already have targeted interventions: First, the campus bar mop-AIDS prevention information, and second, a direct free condoms.

    His talk

    G stepped into a ring

    Another foot in the A ring

    I and the "comrades" 小朱 know is because the written report.小朱 that their cultural hero in a very similar experience, then, we have been on-line contact.
    The day before yesterday, yesterday, two consecutive night, 小朱 told me his story.

    "I'm feeling really Oath." 小朱 said.

    I've seen him, 小朱 handsome, in a crowd is definitely diverse tiers of. This is the impression that the majority's "comrades" of the characteristics of a very literary ambience, beautiful love, and perhaps a point of narcissism.
    Last year he was diagnosed with the "A" (AIDS AIDS).

    小朱 28-year-old wife, beautiful, baby 3 years old, had a family of three people envy.

    The following may be undercurrents of marriage, outsiders do not know.小朱 said he had a habit of boys.
    "I actually girls, psychology, like the handsome guy like you see like heart beats faster."

    Only because of outside reasons, 小朱 never reveal your secrets to others. Too much pressure, and 小朱 to force myself to "correct." Changed a few years, he feels change better.
    He met a girl like their own, married him, and soon there after the child.

    Can 小朱 inner desire has been irrepressible.
    "I thought I was changing for the better, but in fact did not. This thing simply Gai Budiao. Then I told my wife separated, but she did not know the reasons for this."

    小朱 said he could not resist. In the bar, in-line, he found an underground Hangzhou small circle, circle of comrades.
    With them, he would feel "alive."

    "You know those of us who few dare to come out (admit that he is gay), that is, discrimination by others as too much of this group, everyone in the ground, strong randomness, also confused, in fact, very painful. "小朱 says he has been looking for a very long time partner, favorite encountered, but did not insist on down.
    The circle temptations, unlike a heterosexual marriage restriction, same-sex couples are unstable, "derailment" of the relatively more.

    He said that the ring of words: "G stepped into a circle, the other foot also into the A ring." Circle G here say gay (GAY), A circle that is AIDS.

    小朱 said that the process of treatment to know some patients, some of them were sorry, some despair, some people give up on themselves to intentionally A to nobody else.小朱 said he also experienced the ideological struggle, and now sometimes do some volunteers to do peer education, patients with extreme ideas, he Ququan an advise, enlighten enlighten.
    His side "comrades" reminder that we must protect themselves, protect the people around them.

    What the Experts Say

    The implementation of our province

    "1 +2 +3" Prevention and Control Strategy

    Succession AIDS prevention and control expert, told reporters the province every day of a new HIV infections occur. Earlier this year, Hangzhou Center for Disease Control released on 1532 cases of male homosexuals results: 3 years, HIV infection increased by 6.5%, syphilis 4.5%.
    If unchecked, homosexuality brought this group the overall infection rate of AIDS infection rate may reach 50 to 60%.

    For the current situation, the province raised the question of "1 +2 +3" AIDS Control Strategy: Strategy 1 for the general population: the safety concerns of health education, risk reduction behavior; reduce fear and discrimination and to promote testing and care of infected persons. Strategy 2 for high-risk groups: behavioral intervention; HIV (HIV) testing and counseling.
    3 for the HIV positive population policy: to prevent transmitting HIV to others; of infection and timely treatment of patients.

    Science says

    Gay

    Estrogen is the ordinary 3 times

    A man, "Why women do not like, hey?" Zhejiang Medical Mental Health Division Director of a hospital physician Xu Yi, of the nearly 20 years.

    Xu Yi discovered an interesting phenomenon: the Nobel Prize nearly 100-year history, the winner of the natural sciences is not a homosexual.
    On the other hand, in music, fashion, hair and design community homosexual gathering, such as long open gay fashion designer Lagerfeld (Chanel designer), Giorgio Armani, Versace.

    Obviously, not because of job involved doing before they have extraordinary abilities. But their innate ability to balance the aesthetic and hands before they come to the fore in the design world. Xu Yi after study found that gay male hormone only normal 2 / 3, and their estrogen is 3 times as high as normal, which they have both men's practical ability and capacity of women's language and aesthetic
    .

    To confirm this phenomenon, Xu Yi to start with animal experiments, he should by controlling hormone levels, the normal mice transformed into homosexuality.
    In the laboratory, Xu Yi to newborn rats covered with plenty of estrogen, and so grow up observation of behavior, a result, he succeeded.

    "He" fell in love with "he"

    Genes play a role

    Research found that if one twin gay, the other is larger than average likelihood of homosexuality. This indicates that gene in people who will fall in love with the same sex of the issue played a role. Although scientists have not found a "gay gene", but they agreed to congenital factors and acquired influence on this issue has an equally important role. Such as the home will affect the ranking of the eldest male sexual orientation.
    The more natural brother, the more likely it is gay men, this may be consecutive male fetuses affects the hormonal balance within the mother's womb, so homosexuality was born.

    Homosexual or bisexual men and animals, and not just gene expression, gonadal secretion of sex hormones and sex hormone metabolism in the results of environmental impact is also very important.
    For example, locked up in zoo cages goldfinch too small if the ratio of male birds and female birds of homosexuality will increase, but if they are put to nature, this phenomenon will decrease.

    Source: Zhejiang Online - Qianjiang Evening News on: reporter Rui Editor: Zheng Ning

 
 
 
 
 

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