I married my wife in 1999; she is the youngest in her siblings. Mainly because of this and her beauty, she has been very generous to herself, including the things she wears and uses.

After marring me she still has the habit of wearing good clothes, shows and using advanced cosmetics, and used to buy things too good for me. At that time I was just graduated from university and couldn’t afford to buy such things that now seem a peace of cake for me.

We got our son a year later our marriage; she became thrift to herself and thought more for our son. She becomes a mother.

I know beautiful girls, sure she is not a girl now, but still as beautiful as she was, always like good clothes and cosmetics, so when I came to America, even before that, I known that many things are better and cheaper here, and I want to find something for her.

She is too busy to have time to talk with me long, even in the weekends. After I find the things suit for her, I told through QQ, to my surprise, she told me to buy things for whom and who except herself. She agreed the things I bought for myself, and said she doesn’t need shows; the other reason is shows are harder to bring than clothes, sure for others. I know that in the international airport, the weight of everybody’s luggage is limited; I could bring as much things I wanted back.

She told me the sizes of my son, her mother, nephew and niece, and told me to buy clothes for them. That made me not very happy because my main purpose is on her, of cause I could also buy something for others. Even not very happy then, but after thinking again, I find my wife has changed a lot, her good virtues of thinking for others moved me, and made me love her more.