宋圭武观点67：为什么有孩子后妻子对丈夫的关爱会减少
在谈对象期间，或刚结婚期间，妻子一般对丈夫很关心。但有了孩子后，妻子会更多将注意力放在孩子身上，为什么？这实际也是一种进化的本能选择。
因为人类作为一种生命存在，基因的传递保存是第一位的，这是大自然的天然法则，任何动植物都没有例外。夫妻在没有孩子期间，妻子必然很关心丈夫，其目的也有倾向要孩子的一面，这也是本能。但当有了孩子后，目的达到了，自然关怀就减少了，这也是一种本能。另外，有了孩子后，妻子还要花时间照顾孩子，精力有限，照顾丈夫的时间自然会减少。总之，孩子是夫妻二人的中心。夫妻之间的关系，本质都是围绕基因的遗传而展开。
另外，人为什么越老越爱自己的孩子，尤其是爷爷更爱孙子，也是一种本能选择。因为人越老，其遗传能力会越弱，这在本能上必然会加剧爱护后代或自身基因的倾向。而年轻人则不然。因为年轻人生育后代的能力还较强，这会弱化其保护后代的倾向和意识。
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Song Gyu-wu's Viewpoint 67： Why Does the Wives' Care for the Husbands Decrease After Having Children
During the period of talking about the object， or just married， the wife is very concerned about her husband.But after having children， the wife will pay more attention to the children， why？This is actually an instinctive choice of evolution.Because human beings as a living being， the transmission and preservation of genes is the first， which is the natural law of nature， and there is no exception for any animal or plant.When the couple does not have children， the wife is bound to care about her husband， and her purpose is also inclined to have children， which is also an instinct.But when they have children， the purpose is achieved， and the natural care will decrease， which is also an instinct.In addition， after having children， the wife also has to spend time taking care of the children， with limited energy， the time to take care of her husband will naturally decrease.In short， the children are the center of the couple.The relationship between the couple， in essence， is centered on the inheritance of genes.In addition， why people love their children more and more as they get older， especially grandfathers love grandchildren more， which is also an instinctive choice.Because the older people are， the weaker their genetic ability will be， which instinctively will inevitably intensify the tendency to care for the offspring or their own genes.But young people are not. Because young people are still more fertile， this weakens their tendency and awareness to protect their offspring. Okay， thank you， thank you.