宋圭武观点115：说人生的修炼

人生的修炼，其实就是一个逐渐无我的过程。而逐渐无我的过程，本质也是一个人与外部的人和事逐渐融为一体的过程。

当你与外部的人和事融为一体时，你的人格境界必然会得到大大提升。因为在融为一体的情况下，外部人与事的好坏都与你是一体相关的。外部人和事的不好，必然也是你的不好，外部人和事的好，必然也是你的好。在这种情况下，一些所谓嫉妒、贪婪等不良行为，就很难产生，你人格的境界自然会得到大大提升。

如何与外部的人和事融为一体，关键是要时时把自己的心放在别人的心上，与别人的心合为一心。别人在说话时，也就是你在说话，别人在做事时，也就是你在做事。

也就是说，所谓人生修炼，最终目的是要实现你的心能与别人的心达到心心相印的地步。好，谢谢，谢谢。

Song Guiwu's Viewpoint 115: The Cultivation of Life

The cultivation of life is actually a process of gradually losing self-awareness.And the process of gradually losing self-awareness is also a process of gradually integrating oneself with external people and things.When you integrate yourself with external people and things, your personality will inevitably be greatly improved.Because in the case of integration, the quality of external people and things is integrated with you.The bad of external people and things is also your bad, and the good of external people and things is also your good.In this case, some so-called bad behaviors such as jealousy and greed are difficult to produce, and your personality will naturally be greatly improved.How to integrate with external people and things? The key is to always put your heart in others' hearts and integrate them into one heart.When others are talking, you are talking, and when others are doing things, you are doing things.That is to say, the ultimate goal of the so-called cultivation of life is to realize that your heart can reach the point of mutual affinity with others' hearts.OK, thank you, thank you.