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艾滋病患者需要心理疏导
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曾经以为艾滋病距离我们很遥远，最远是在大洋彼岸的国外，再近一点也是在国内的某个省市。
但是，自从2002年我市查出首例艾滋病患者以后，患者的数字每年都在增加，截止2006年11月，患者多达56人，艾滋病这个名词就不再那么遥不可及。艾滋病患者在我们居住的这个城市尽管还是一个小数目，但如果从艾滋病传染的特殊途径和扩散的速度来看，这是一个绝对不可掉以轻心的数字。如果我们仍然对它一无所知，仍然不敢正视它的存在，仍然不敢以积极的态度面对他，仍然不能采取正确得当的方法防范它，这股潜流将会以几何级的数据增长，裂变，更多人的正常生活会被改变，原本幸福美满的家庭会因此被毁。
为何女性更易染艾滋病？
艾滋疫苗 多年的守望
艾滋病正在逼近商城，这并非危言耸听。当艾滋病这个令人谈之色变的字眼在今天已经家喻户晓时，普通人对艾滋病的了解还是知之甚少，尤其是对艾滋病患者，害怕、好奇可能是人们最普遍的两种心态。
艾滋病患者是怎么得病的?得病后在生理上、心理上面临什么样的折磨?最需要人们给予哪些帮助?
近日，记者在义乌市疾控中心帮助下，采访到了我市两位艾滋病患者，相信通过下面一些文字里，读者可以真实地了解艾滋病患者的内心世界。
2006年的最后一天，记者在市疾控中心防病二科见到了艾滋病病毒感染者杨行(化名)，他是义乌本地人，两年前和妻子检查时发现，双双感染了艾滋病。
“直到现在，我都不知道怎么会得了这个病。”
“一位艾滋病患者，当第一次得知自己得病时，除了内心极度恐惧外，肯定会存在着一个心结，到底是怎么得上艾滋病的。”2004年，杨行的妻子查出艾滋病，随后他本人也被证实感染艾滋病病毒，那一刻，一个本是幸福美满的家庭陷入了绝境。
“我是个老实本分的人，从来不会在外面做什么不轨的事情，身体一直很棒，从未住过院，也没有输血、补牙齿等行为。医生帮我推算的结论是，我们两人应该是我妻子先得病，进而传染给我。当时，我妻子心结更大，怕我认为她与其他男人有性行为，怕我用歧视的眼光看待她。她是外地人，嫁给我后生活一向很检点，我相信她也是无辜的受害者。
“最后推算来推算去，估计是由于妻子几年前的一次输血引起的。不过现在这些都已经无所谓，我们也不会再去追究。”
“患病后一年，整个人都是绝望的。”
害怕、担心、恐惧，正如一把把利剑，无时无刻不在刺痛杨行夫妻俩的心，患病后整整一年，他们的生活里没有阳光。“得了这个病就等于没有前途了，一切都完了。我们无法像正常人一样预期未来。他们可以想象自己哪一天做爷爷奶奶，而我们却根本不可能，因为我们不知道自己还能活多久。”
据杨行回忆，这一年夫妻俩心态很不好，脾气暴躁，常常为一点小事就争吵起来，况且两人当时都没有固定工作，家里经济状况不好。“我妻子那时已经发病，必须靠药物维持，当时国家还没有出台免费发放艾滋病药物的政策，这些药费用又特别高，即使是国产的，一年下来也需要好几万。从我妻子生病到2005年4月领到免费药这段时间，半年不到的时间总共花了五六万。家里没钱，只能跟亲戚朋友借，每次借钱都很害怕，不知道找什么借口。”
“我们是病人，但我们更是心理健全的人。”
一些人有这样的盲区，认为感染上艾滋病的人心态是不正常的，会采取某些极端的手段报复这个世界。这也许是极小部分艾滋病患者的不良心态，绝大多数人都如杨行说的：“我们是病人，但我们更是心理健全的人，其实我们更怕把病传给别人，所以做事特别谨慎小心。我们得病已成事实，身边人有没有得病才是我们最关心的。”杨行的艾滋病病友里有一位女大学生，当她得知自己染病时，立马给曾经交往过的前男友打电话，希望他去医院做相关检查。
杨行还说，自从他和妻子患病后，便千方百计避免与家人、孩子有亲热行为，刚开始的时候就连碗、筷都是分开的。“其实我们也知道这些都不会传染艾滋病，但总是心里有障碍。以前我们时常爱到亲戚或朋友家串门，那段时间就没去过，也就是自己把自己隔离开了。”
“在这个社会上，人们对艾滋病的误区太多了。”
对于艾滋病患者而言，病症可怕，但更可怕的还是人们戴着有色眼镜去看待他们。“这些年，媒体对艾滋病宣传增多了，可往往是12月1日“轰炸”一番，便消失得无影无踪。前些天我去杭州参加一次抗艾活动，有家电视台记者居然问一位艾滋病患者，为什么摄像机照着你，你就害怕，不说话。他们根本不知道，如果我们赤裸裸地暴露在公众面前，那我们之后的生活会遭遇什么样的尴尬。”
“有位艾滋病友和我说，有一次他去某医院做外科小手术，为慎重起见，特意提醒医院开刀时小心一点，没想到医院居然打电话到疾控中心核实此人是否为艾滋病患者，当得知其是艾滋病病毒感染者时，马上拒绝为他动手术。
“这样的事情还有许多许多，有时我们为了安全会告诉医生自己的情况，有的医生就不敢用手直接接触，有的医生刻意做了许多消毒措施，还有的医生在非典时甚至夸张地戴起防毒面具，因为他认为空气是会传播艾滋病的。连医生都有那么大的误区，更何况是普通老百姓，有回某地组织艾滋病患者去旅游，整个饭店服务员知道后全逃走了，主办方只得派医学院的护士做服务生。所以，不是我们不愿意透露自己的艾滋病患者身份，只因为这个社会给我们的压力太大了。”
“政府的关爱使我们逐步走出黑暗。”
“好在有政府的关怀、关爱，让我和妻子在一年时间里，相继走出围城。”去年四月，参照国家“四免一关怀”政策中“我国对农民和城镇经济困难人群中的艾滋病患者实行免费抗病毒药物治疗”，杨行的妻子接受免费药物治疗，这使得他们在经济上松了一口气。“经济负担少了，明显感觉一家人都轻松许多，渐渐我和妻子交流也多了，夫妻俩有时候也会谈到艾滋病，但却不涉及到究竟还能活多久等一些敏感的话题。妻子已接受了患病发病的现实，她现在最大的目标是争取多活几年。”
“我很想回报社会，我希望有一天自己可以勇敢地站出来，大声告诉别人，我是艾滋病患者。”
这两年，杨行时常陪妻子到外地治疗，搜集艾滋病信息，了解各地艾滋病情况，现在他已经可以算是一个“艾滋通”了，有时候医生都还要向他咨询。“我真的很想回报社会，把我所知道的常识、信息告诉大家，做艾滋病的义务宣讲员。但现在我还不能，没有这个勇气，因为我不知道会有什么样的结果，毕竟我还要考虑父母和孩子的感受。我希望有一天自己可以勇敢地站出来，大声告诉别人，我是艾滋病患者。”
“其实，杨行现在已经在用另外一种办法实现自己的愿望，他经常接触一些艾滋病患者，相互沟通之余也为他们做心理辅导。”疾控中心的工作人员向记者透露。
艾滋病患者最需要的是心理疏导，尤其是刚得知自己患病之时，需要有人拉他一把走出困境。我想，一个同样患了艾滋病的人说的话更具有说服力，如果有这方面需要的艾滋病患者，我真的很愿意做他们的心理医生。
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曾經以為艾滋病距離我們很遙遠，最遠是在大洋彼岸的國外，再近一點也是在國內的某個省市。
但是，自從 2002年我市查出首例艾滋病患者以後，患者的數字每年都在增加，截止2006年11月，患者多達五六人，艾滋病這個名詞就不再那麼遙不可及。艾滋病患者在我們居住的這個城市儘管還是一個小數目，但如果從艾滋病傳染的特殊途徑和擴散的速度來看，這是一個絕對不可掉以輕心的數字。如果我們仍然對它一無所知，仍然不敢正視它的存在，仍然不敢以積極的態度面對他，仍然不能採取正確得當的方法防範它，這股潛流將會以幾何級的數據增長，裂變，更多人的正常生活會被改變，原本幸福美滿的家庭會因此被毀。
為何女性更易染艾滋病？
艾滋疫苗多年的守望
艾滋病正在逼近商城，這並非危言聳聽。當艾滋病這個令人談之色變的字眼在今天已經家喻戶曉時，普通人對艾滋病的了解還是知之甚少，尤其是對艾滋病患者，害怕，好奇可能是人們最普遍的兩種心態。
艾滋病患者是怎麼得病的？得病後在生理上，心理上面臨什麼樣的折磨？最需要人們給予哪些幫助？
近日，記者在義烏市疾控中心幫助下，採訪到了我市兩位艾滋病患者，相信通過下面一些文字裡，讀者可以真實地了解艾滋病患者的內心世界。
2006年的最後一天，記者在市疾控中心防病二科見到了艾滋病病毒感染者楊行（化名），他是義烏本地人，兩年前和妻子檢查時發現，雙雙感染了艾滋病。
“直到現在，我都不知道怎麼會得了這個病。”
“一位艾滋病患者，當第一次得知自己得病時，除了內心極度恐懼外，肯定會存在著一個心結，到底是怎麼得上艾滋病的。”2004年，楊行的妻子查出艾滋病，隨後他本人也被證實感染艾滋病病毒，那一刻，一個本是幸福美滿的家庭陷入了絕境。
“我是個老實本分的人，從來不會在外面做什麼不軌的事情，身體一直很棒，從未住過院，也沒有輸血，補牙齒等行為。醫生幫我推算的結論是，我們兩人應該是我妻子先得病，進而傳染給我。當時，我妻子心結更大，怕我認為她與其他男人有性行為，怕我用歧視的眼光看待她。她是外地人，嫁給我後生活一向很檢點，我相信她也是無辜的受害者。
“最後推算來推算去，估計是由於妻子幾年前的一次輸血引起的。不過現在這些都已經無所謂，我們也不會再去追究。”
“患病後一年，整個人都是絕望的。”
害怕，擔心，恐懼，正如一把把利劍，無時無刻不在刺痛楊行夫妻倆的心，患病後整整一年，他們的生活裡沒有陽光。“得了這個病就等於沒有前途了，一切都完了。我們無法像正常人一樣預期未來。他們可以想像自己哪一天做爺爺奶奶，而我們卻根本不可能，因為我們不知道自己還能活多久。“
據楊行回憶，這一年夫妻倆心態很不好，脾氣暴躁，常常為一點小事就爭吵起來，況且兩人當時都沒有固定工作，家裡經濟狀況不好。“我妻子那時已經發病，必須靠藥物維持，當時國家還沒有出台免費發放艾滋病藥物的政策，這些藥費用又特別高，即使是國產的，一年下來也需要好幾萬。從我妻子生病到2005年4月領到免費藥這段時間，半年不到的時間總共花了五六萬。家裡沒錢，只能跟親戚朋友借，每次借錢都很害怕，不知道找什麼藉口。“
“我們是病人，但我們更是心理健全的人。”
一些人有這樣的盲區，認為感染上艾滋病的人心態是不正常的，會採取某些極端的手段報復這個世界。這也許是極小部分艾滋病患者的不良心態，絕大多數人都如楊行說的：“我們是病人，但我們更是心理健全的人，其實我們更怕把病傳給別人，所以做事特別謹慎小心。我們得病已成事實，身邊人有沒有得病才是我們最關心的。“楊行的艾滋病病友裡有一位女大學生，當她得知自己染病時，立馬給曾經交往過的前男友打電話，希望他去醫院做相關檢查。
楊行還說，自從他和妻子患病後，便千方百計避免與家人，孩子有親熱行為，剛開始的時候就連碗，筷都是分開的。“其實我們也知道這些都不會傳染艾滋病，但總是心裡有障礙。以前我們時常愛到親戚或朋友家串門，那段時間就沒去過，也就是自己把自己隔離開了。“
“在這個社會上，人們對艾滋病的誤區太多了。”
對於艾滋病患者而言，病症可怕，但更可怕的還是人們戴著有色眼鏡去看待他們。“這些年，媒體對艾滋病宣傳增多了，可往往是12月1日”轟炸“一番，便消失得無影無踪。前些天我去杭州參加一次抗艾活動，有家電視台記者居然問一位艾滋病患者，為什麼攝像機照著你，你就害怕，不說話。他們根本不知道，如果我們赤裸裸地暴露在公眾面前，那我們之後的生活會遭遇什麼樣的尷尬。“
“有位艾滋病友和我說，有一次他去某醫院做外科小手術，為慎重起見，特意提醒醫院開刀時小心一點，沒想到醫院居然打電話到疾控中心核實此人是否為艾滋病患者，當得知其是艾滋病病毒感染者時，馬上拒絕為他動手術。
“這樣的事情還有許多許多，有時我們為了安全會告訴醫生自己的情況，有的醫生就不敢用手直接接觸，有的醫生刻意做了許多消毒措施，還有的醫生在非典時甚至誇張地戴起防毒面具，因為他認為空氣是會傳播艾滋病的。連醫生都有那麼大的誤區，更何況是普通老百姓，有回某地組織艾滋病患者去旅遊，整個飯店服務員知道後全逃走了，主辦方只得派醫學院的護士做服務生。所以，不是我們不願意透露自己的艾滋病患者身份，只因為這個社會給我們的壓力太大了。“
“政府的關愛使我們逐步走出黑暗。”
“好在有政府的關懷，關愛，讓我和妻子在一年時間裡，相繼走出圍城。”去年四月，參照國家“四免一關懷”政策中“我國對農民和城鎮經濟困難人群中的艾滋病患者實行免費抗病毒藥物治療“，楊行的妻子接受免費藥物治療，這使得他們在經濟上鬆了一口氣。”經濟負擔少了，明顯感覺一家人都輕鬆許多，漸漸我和妻子交流也多了，夫妻倆有時候也會談到艾滋病，但卻不涉及到究竟還能活多久等一些敏感的話題。妻子已接受了患病發病的現實，她現在最大的目標是爭取多活幾年。“
“我很想回報社會，我希望有一天自己可以勇敢地站出來，大聲告訴別人，我是艾滋病患者。”
這兩年，楊行時常陪妻子到外地治療，蒐集艾滋病信息，了解各地艾滋病情況，現在他已經可以算是一個“艾滋通”了，有時候醫生都還要向他諮詢。“我真的很想回報社會，把我所知道的常識，信息告訴大家，做艾滋病的義務宣講員。但現在我還不能，沒有這個勇氣，因為我不知道會有什麼樣的結果，畢竟我還要考慮父母和孩子的感受。我希望有一天自己可以勇敢地站出來，大聲告訴別人，我是艾滋病患者。“
“其實，楊行現在已經在用另外一種辦法實現自己的願望，他經常接觸一些艾滋病患者，相互溝通之餘也為他們做心理輔導。”疾控中心的工作人員向記者透露。
艾滋病患者最需要的是心理疏導，尤其是剛得知自己患病之時，需要有人拉他一把走出困境。我想，一個同樣患了艾滋病的人說的話更具有說服力，如果有這方面需要的艾滋病患者，我真的很願意做他們的心理醫生。
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Recently, the CDC's help in Yiwu, interviewed the two AIDS patients in our city, I believe that by following some text, the reader can truly understand the inner AIDS.
The last day of 2006, CDC disease prevention at the city's Second Division saw HIV Yang line (a pseudonym), he is Yiwu native and his wife discovered he had two years ago, both infected with AIDS.
"Until now, I do not know how it got the disease."
"One AIDS patient, when for the first time that their disease, apart from extreme fear of inner things, certainly there is a knot, in the end is how get the AIDS." In 2004, Yang's wife, identified AIDS line, then he was confirmed HIV infection, that moment, a happy family this is caught in an impasse.
"I am a honest part of the people who never do anything outside of misconduct in the matter, the body has been good, never been hospitalized, and no blood transfusion, etc., fill teeth. Medical help me projected conclusion is that our two who should be my wife first got sick, and then transmitted to me. At that time, my wife knot more afraid I think she has sex with other men, afraid that I look at her with discrimination. She is a stranger, marry me Life has always been very discreet after, I believe she is an innocent victim.
"Projection to project the final go, presumably because of his wife several years ago caused a blood transfusion. But now they have does not matter, we will not go investigate."
"One year after the sick, the people are desperate."
Fear, worry, fear, as a sharp swords, all the time does not hurt the hearts of both his wife Yang Xingfu, a whole year after the illness, their life without the sun. "Well this disease will have no future, and it was all over. We can not forecast the future like a normal person. They can imagine themselves doing grandparents day, but we simply can not, because we do not know can Huoduo Jiu. "
According to Yang line memories, the year the couple very bad attitude, bad temper, often a little small on a quarrel Besides, the work of two, were not fixed, the poor economic situation at home. "My wife had already incidence, must rely on medication to maintain, when the country had not yet been released for free AIDS drugs in the policy, these drugs especially high costs, even if made in China, tens of thousands each year, also needs. From sick to my wife April 2005 received free medicine this time, less than half the time spent a total of 56 million. home no money, only with friends and relatives by each are afraid to borrow money, do not know what to look for excuses. "
"We are patient, but we are even more psychologically healthy person."
Some people have such blind spots, that people infected with AIDS is not a normal state of mind, would take some extreme measures to revenge the world. This may be a very small part of the negative attitude of AIDS patients, most people like Yang line said: "We are patient, but we are psychologically healthy people, in fact we are more afraid of the disease to others, so do something special cautious. we get sick is a fact, people have become ill around what we are most concerned about. "Yang line AIDS sufferers there a female student, when she learned that he infected, the flew to the former boyfriend had gone out to play phone, hoping him to the hospital related to inspect.
Yang Bank also said that since he and his wife ill, they will do everything possible to avoid the family, the children are affectionate behavior, even at the beginning of bowls, chopsticks are separate. "In fact, we know that these are not transmitted HIV, but always heart-impaired. The past, we always love to relatives or friends drop in for, that time no been, is, itself isolated from their own."
"In this society, people are too many misunderstandings about AIDS."
For AIDS, the terrible disease, but even more frightening is that people look at them through colored glasses. "Over the years, the media publicity on AIDS has increased, can often be December 1," bombing "themselves, they disappear without a trace. A few days ago I went to Hangzhou to participate in activities of an anti-Ai, a home television reporter actually asked an AIDS patient, why the camera man in you, you fear, do not speak. They do not know if we naked in public, then we would experience life after what kind of embarrassing. "
"One AIDS patients, and I said, once he went to a hospital for surgery minor operation, as a precautionary measure, specially careful to remind the hospital during surgery, the hospital actually did not expect the person to call the CDC to verify whether AIDS patients, when that it is HIV, the immediate rejection of his surgery.
"There are so many, many things, sometimes we will tell the doctors themselves to the security situation, some doctors will not dare to bare-hand contact, some doctors deliberately done a lot of disinfection measures, as well as the doctor even when SARS exaggeration, DAI Qi-gas masks, because he believed that the air will spread AIDS. even the doctors have so much misunderstanding, let alone ordinary people, there is an organization of AIDS patients back to travel, the hotel waiter knew all escaped after The organizers had to send nurses to do medical services to students. So, not that we do not want to disclose their AIDS status, just because this social pressure on us too. "
"The government's care so that we gradually out of the darkness."
"Fortunately, there is the Government's care, caring for my wife and I in one year, one after another out of the Besieged City." Last April, in the light of the "Four Frees and One Care" policy, "Our economic difficulties for farmers and urban populations in AIDS patients free anti-retroviral treatment, "the wife of Yang-line for free medical treatment, which makes their economic relief. "Economic burden a little, obviously feeling a lot of people are relaxed, and gradually my wife and I have more exchanges, the couple will sometimes talk about AIDS, but they do not relate to what can Huoduo Jiu and some other sensitive topic. His wife has accepted the reality of illness onset, her biggest goal is to win a few more years. "
"I would like to return the community, I hope that one day he can stand up bravely, loudly tell other people, I was AIDS."
This year, Young-line treatment is often accompanied his wife to the field to gather AIDS information to understand the situation around AIDS, and now he has to be an "AIDS-pass", and sometimes even to his doctors advice. "I really want to return society to the common sense I know, information to tell you that the obligation to do AIDS preachers. But now I can not, without the courage, because I do not know what kind of results, after all, I also consider the feelings of parents and children. I hope that one day he can stand up bravely, loudly tell other people, I was AIDS. "
"In fact, Young is now in line with another way to realize their aspirations, some of his frequent contact with AIDS patients, communicate with each other while psychological counseling for them to do." CDC staff told reporters.
AIDS patients need most is psychological counseling, especially when just learned he is sick, need someone to help him out of the woods. I think an equally suffering from AIDS, to say it more convincing, if there is need for AIDS patients, I am really happy to be their psychiatrist.
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