“中標”後的他還把艾滋傳染給了女友
    2010-03-18 22:17 　來源： 杭州網作者:楊超編輯: 劉方蘋
    杭州1532例男男同性戀者的調查……
    青島大學醫學院附屬醫院性健康中心教授張北川調查顯示，我國1989年發現的首例經性傳播的艾滋病感染者就是一位MSM。在一些省區，MSM已經成為艾滋病感染率最高的人群。
    在MSM中，近800萬的城市男性和流動到城市的男性，則是更加高危的人群。在MSM中，艾滋病傳播主要與3個因素有關：性伴數量、性行為方式、是否有防護措施。具體而言，性伴數目越多，感染概率越大，而正確使用安全套可以使艾滋病病毒的傳播減少85％。
    杭州首例青年學生艾滋病感染者發現於2005年
    中國科普作家杭州市疾控中心副主任醫師施水泉告訴記者，根據他的了解近年來杭州的情況也是十分的嚴峻：青年學生人群中感染者近幾年上昇明顯：杭州首例青年學生艾滋病感染者是在2005年發現的，傳播方式為男男性接觸感染；2007年和2008年發現的青年學生感染人數在逐年增多，均通過性接觸途徑，其中四分之三為同性間性行為傳播，到2009年9月底，已發現青年學生的感染數上升到二位數，最主要的傳播途徑是同性間性行為感染，這是所有性行為傳播中最危險的方式。
    男男性接觸人群要勇敢地走出“灰色空間”
    在男男性接觸者（MSM）中流行著一首叫《灰色空間》的歌，他們說這是一首只屬於這個群體的歌。隨著MSM人群在艾滋病感染者中比例的上升，這一人群能否敢於站出來，依靠集體的力量防治艾滋病的侵襲，能否從灰色空間中走出來，不僅僅需要疾病防治人員的努力，更需要這個群體中的每一份力量。
    只要一次就會“中”的
    24歲的小鄭，長得天生的奶油小生模樣，是大學四年級學生。在校期間，是個文藝骨幹，演什麼像什麼，尤其是客串女生，那身段與聲音，在舞台上真讓人難辯“雌雄”，就連當時學校許多猛男，都會紛紛打聽，“她”是誰、哪個系，都想與“她”認識一下。
    畢業實習了，他託在杭州的親戚，找到一家公司，一邊實習，一邊完成最後的畢業論文。公司老闆是中年男性，雖然家有妻室，但喜歡與男性交往。一見小鄭，大有相見恨晚之意，很高興接納他來實習。
    這家公司的發展很有潛力，又在風景如此美麗的天堂杭州，小鄭有了想法。想討好這位老闆，為畢業後的就業創造條件。因此，在與老闆的個人交往中，兩人的出差、喝酒等單獨相處時，對老闆的出格行為，並不十分抗拒。
    有一次在外地出差的旅館房間裡，因為喝了很多酒，迷迷糊糊地，以為與自己的女朋友在一起。竟任由老闆將他脫去衣服，之後發生了性行為。
    小鄭自己表述，有種以前與女友交往不一樣的興奮感。他覺得這就是以前他在網上看到的所謂男男同性戀。老闆答應要對他好，畢業分配就到他公司上班，工資待遇與職務專業等一切從優。由於種種原因，小鄭在以後的日子裡，與老闆發生了10次性行為，但後面的幾次，他要求對方一定要戴安全套。三個月後，小鄭因闌尾炎手術，術前化驗血液，被檢出艾滋病病毒感染。
    在疾控部門的流行病學調查中，小鄭的女朋友沒有問題，老闆有問題。小鄭後悔莫及，就是這麼一次沒有保護的男男不潔性行為，就中了“頭彩”。疾控中心的專家表示在性行為中，決不能有僥倖心理，不潔性行為，哪怕只有一次，也會感染上艾滋病病毒。
    獵奇心理付出的沉重代價
    小王是個學建築碩士研究生，他十分喜歡探索新奇的生活，大都市裡的什麼場所都想去見識一下。在“鐵桿”朋友的介紹下，他去一家很特別的浴室。這裡的服務生都很年輕，但大多是自助的服務。
    有時候，他在昏暗的光線下，看到一對對男性，很親密地進進出出。因為浴室這個便利條件，有些人洗完澡後，就在一間間有屏風遮擋的小間裡，好像是一對熱戀時青年男女。
    看到小楊有莫名的燥動，他朋友建議，如果想試試有否這方面愛好，可以到有這樣標記的房間裡去。那裡有人會提供這樣的服務。記住，這是願做女的標記，那是願做男的標記。小楊是個見多識廣的青年學生。他在網上瀏覽時，就知道國外就有這樣的同性戀組織，想不到在他生活與工作的城市裡也有。
    朋友告訴他，這樣的組織在特殊的酒吧和公園裡都有。為了保密，小楊這天事先喝了點酒，單獨一人上了這個浴室。他好奇地進入有女的標識房間。裡面的人也有他同樣的想法，二人完全是在黑暗中進行。
    由於是第一次，在酒性尚未徹底消除時，纏綿後，小楊竟忘了讓對方戴安全套。這次莫名其妙的“探索”，讓這名很有前途的碩士付出生命與健康的沉重代價，幾個月後，血檢艾滋病病毒陽性。事發後，疾控專業人員，找不到這位可能傳染給他的陌生人，一個傳染源又流入我們的社會。
    同性交友也需謹慎
    方先生30來歲，是一家城市外貿公司的業務員。手上拿著一張疾控部門通知的血檢複查通知單。疾控專家說，他感染上艾滋病病毒不止半年了（正常人的淋巴細胞數是800以上，感染艾滋病病毒後，下降到100，需要幾年時間）。
    也許與他的職業有關，方先生好交朋友。 4年前，一次在朋友的麻將桌上，他接識一位新（男）朋友，感到這人見多識廣，什麼事都知道一些，很通人情。便與他單獨交往起來。聊天、喝酒、打牌影形不離。一天不見，如隔三秋。
    這位朋友接識小方，也有一定的用意。小方，從外表上看，是有點陽剛氣的美男子。一天，該朋友打開一瓶法國名酒，酙上一杯讓小方喝，不知怎麼地暈乎了。難道是自己的酒力不行，只感到自己一點力氣就沒有了。
    他只知道，他是被朋友抱扶到床上的，最後竟然......據他自己回憶當時人是清醒的，但沒有力氣進行任何反抗。被朋友“誘姦”後，他覺得這件事很噁心，便與這人斷絕了關係。
    時候他告訴疾控的工作人員，交友不慎，也是要付出代價的。目前他正在積極治療，與妻子也告明了真相，妻子原諒了他，至今妻子情況良好。雖然說多個朋友多條路，但要看是什麼樣的朋友，危險的朋友交不得。
    明知山有“虎”，偏向“虎”山行
    這樣的情況發生在邊窮偏闢山村的多。身強力壯的某村農民阿興，用高價買了雲南外嫁女桂花。桂花在雲南老家吸過毒，雖然戒了，但怕遇見以前的毒友經不起誘惑就下嫁窮山村。
    結婚時，桂花告訴丈夫，自己是因為吸毒染上艾滋病病毒，是個感染者。同房時一定要戴安全套的。但用了幾次，阿興嫌使用麻煩，激情時還要有所顧忌，堅持不用，桂花也就不再堅持了。
    就是這樣的無知，阿興付出沉痛的代價，幾年後一檢查，自己感染上艾滋病病毒，血液陽性，還殃及了下一代，自己寶貝兒子也在出生後發現感染上病毒。對艾滋病這樣的惡魔，一定要在科學知識的指導下，規範自己的行為，明知不可為非為之，十分危險。
    歷史記載同性戀“斷袖”的典故
    西漢建平二年，有一天，漢哀帝下朝回宮，看到殿前站著一個人，正在傳漏報時，哀帝隨口問：“那不是捨人董賢嗎？”那人忙叩頭道： “正是小臣董賢。”董賢是御史董恭的兒子，在漢哀帝劉欣還是太子時曾當過太子舍人。就是這一瞥，哀帝忽然發現，幾年不見，董賢越長越俊俏了，比六宮粉黛還要漂亮，他不禁大為喜愛，命他隨身例侍從。
    從此對他日益寵愛，同車而乘，同榻而眠。董賢不僅長得像美女，言談舉止也十足地像女人，“性柔和”、“善為媚”。哀帝對董賢的愛之深，可用一個子來說明。一次午睡，董賢枕著哀帝的袖子睡著了。哀帝想起身，卻又不忍驚醒董賢，隨手拔劍割斷了衣袖。
    後人將同性戀稱為“斷袖之癖”，說了這麼多故事就是想讓大家進一步地了解男男同性戀的一些常識，重視性關係比強調行為更重要。同性戀者需要社會的理解和包容，但更需要用自己的實際行動擔負起一個公民對社會的責任。

"The successful tenderer" after HIV infection, he also gave his girlfriend
    2010-03-18 22:17 Source: Hangzhou networks Author: Yang Chao Editor: Liu Fang-ping
    Hangzhou, 1532 cases of male homosexuals in the investigation ... ...
    Affiliated Hospital of Qingdao University Medical College Center for Sexual Health, Professor Zhang Beichuan survey, first discovered in China in 1989 by the sexually transmitted HIV infections is an MSM. In some provinces, MSM has become the highest HIV prevalence populations.
    In the MSM, the nearly 800 million urban males and flow to the cities of men, it is even more high-risk populations. In the MSM, the HIV virus is spread primarily with three factors: the number of sexual partners, sexual behavior, whether there are protective measures. In particular, the greater the number of sexual partners, the greater the probability of infection, while the correct use of condoms can reduce HIV transmission 85%.
    Hangzhou, the first case of young students living with HIV was discovered in 2005
    Hangzhou, China CDC deputy director of the popular science writer, Dr. Shi springs told reporters, according to his understanding of the situation in recent years, Hangzhou is also very severe: young students infected population increased significantly in recent years: the first case of young students, Hangzhou AIDS in 2005 discovered mode of transmission for MSM infections; in 2007 and 2008 the number of infections found in young students increasing year by year, are through sexual contact, of which three-quarters of the same sex among sexually transmitted, to 2009 years by the end of September, has been found infected with the number of young students up to two digits, the most important means of transmission is sex between same-sex infections, which is the most dangerous of all sexually transmitted way.
    MSM crowd want to bravely out of the "gray space"
    In the MSM (MSM) in the popular, one is called "gray space" of the song, they say this is a song only to belong to this group. With the MSM population in the proportion of people living with HIV in the rise of this group can dare to stand up and rely on the collective strength of the invasion of AIDS, can come out from the gray space, requires more than disease prevention for their efforts, more need this group a source of strength for each.
    As long as a will "in progress"
    24-year-old Xiao Zheng, grow naturally Naiyouxiaosheng the appearance of fourth-grade students in the university. In school is a cultural mainstay What are they acting like anything, especially the guest of girls, that movements and sounds, on the stage and give people Nanbian "male and female," even at school, many of Takeo, would have asked around, "she" is Who, what department, anxious to get with the "she" know about.
    Graduation practice, and he has asked relatives in Hangzhou, to find a company, while internship, while completing the final dissertation. The boss is a middle-aged men, although the family has wife, but like the interaction with men. 1 See Xiao Zheng, meaning much Brief Encounter, I am pleased to accept him doing an internship.
    The development of the company's great potential, but also such a beautiful paradise in the scenic Hangzhou, Xiao Zheng got an idea. Trying to please the boss, in order to create the conditions of employment after graduation. Therefore, in the boss's personal contacts, the two men travel, drinking, etc. live alone when the boss overstepped the bounds of behavior, is not very resistant.
    Once in the hotel room where a business trip, because a lot of drinking wine, drowsily, thinking together with his girlfriend. Went so far as to let the boss of his clothes off after having sex.
    Xiao Zheng their own statements, a kind of previous contact with the girlfriend, not the same excitement. He felt that this is before the Internet, he saw the so-called MSM. The boss promised to him good, graduation assignments went to his company's work, wages and duties of the professional and all favorably. For various reasons, Xiao Zheng at a later day, and the boss 10 times sex occurred, but behind the times, he asked the other side you have to wear condoms. Three months later, Xiao Zheng surgery due to appendicitis, preoperative blood tests, HIV infection was detected.
    In the disease control department of the epidemiological investigation, Xiao Zheng's girlfriend is no problem, the boss in question. Xiao Zheng regret is that so many men that did not protect the men and dirty sex, insofar as the "first prize." CDC experts said that in the sex, the must not be left to chance, dirty sex, even if only once, will be infected with HIV.
    Searching for a heavy psychological price to pay
    Xiao Wang is a Master of Architecture graduate school, he was very much like to explore the novel's life, what a big city place always wants to go see this. In the "iron" Friends of the introduction, he went to a very special bathroom. The service here is very young, but mostly self-service.
    Sometimes, in the dim light he saw the pair of men, very close to and out. This is because the bathroom facilities, some people, after bath, just a block wall between a small room at, as if a pair of young men and women when in love.
    To see Xiao Yang has inexplicable dry move, his friend suggested that whether if you want to try this hobby, it can be such a mark's room. Where some people would provide such services. Remember, this is a woman is willing to do marking, it is willing to do men's mark. Xiao Yang is an experienced and knowledgeable young students. When he was browsing, I know there is such a gay foreign organization, did not expect him to live and work in cities, too.
    A friend told him that such an organization in special bars and parks, are limitless. To maintain secrecy, Xiao Yang on this day in advance of the point of drinking wine, a single person on this bathroom. He was curious to enter a woman identified the room. The people inside have him the same idea, two entirely carried out in the dark.
    Because it is the first time, in the complete elimination of alcohol was not recommended, the lingering after Xiao Yang actually forgot to let the other wear condoms. This inexplicable "explore", so that the name of the master's promising to pay a heavy price for the lives and health of a few months later, blood tests, HIV-positive. After the incident, disease control professionals, can not find this might be transmitted to him by a stranger, a source of infection again into our society.
    Same-sex friends also need to be cautious
    Mr. Fang is 30 years old, is a city of trade the company's salesman. Their hands, a disease control departments of the blood test review notification notice. Disease control expert said that he infected with HIV more than half of the (normal lymphocyte count is 800 or more, after HIV infection dropped to 100, take a few years time).
    Perhaps with his job-related, Mr. Fang good friends. 4 years ago, one at a friend's mahjong table, he received knowledge of a new (male) friend, felt that these people experienced and knowledgeable, nothing can be know some very pass human. Contacts will be with him up. Chatting, drinking, playing cards not leave shadow form. One day not see, such as every other San-Qiu.
    This friend then knowledge of small side, but also have a certain intention. Small square, from the appearance point of view, is a bit masculine male beauty. One day, the friend to open a bottle of French wine, Zhen on the small side to drink a cup so I do not know how to halo of peace. Do not do their own Jiu Li, only to feel a little effort, there is no.
    He only knew that he was a friend to a Rotary holds bed, and finally went so far ...... according to his own, remembering the people are awake, but no energy to carry out any resistance. Be friends "seduction", the he felt that this matter is very sick, he severed ties with this person.
    He tells disease control staff, the wrong friends, is a price to pay. He is currently active treatment, and his wife came to an understanding of the truth, his wife forgave him, since his wife, in good condition. Although more than a friend more than one way, but it depends on what kind of friends, friends pay shall not be dangerous.
    Knowing that the hill, "tiger," bias "tiger" Mountain Line
    Such a situation occurred in the village side of the poor provision of multi-bias. Able-bodied farmers Axing of a village, with higher price Yunnan Wai Jianv sweet-scented osmanthus. Osmanthus fragrans home smoked drugs in Yunnan, although the ring, but the fear of toxic met prior to the Friends tempted to marry the poor mountain villages.
    Weddings, sweet-scented osmanthus told her husband that he is infected with HIV because of drug use, is a infection. Intercourse when you have to wear condoms. But with a few times too Askinger the use of trouble, even when the passion is reluctant to adhere to No, sweet-scented osmanthus no longer persisted.
    Is one such ignorance, to pay a heavy price Axing a few years later a check themselves infected with HIV, blood-positive, but also bring disaster to the next generation, after the birth of his baby son, was also found to be infected with the virus. AIDS such evil, it must be under the guidance of scientific knowledge, regulate their own behavior, knowing that can not be non-whom, very dangerous.
    Historical records gay "cut sleeve" the story of
    Han Jianping two years, one day, North Korea, under Emperor Ai Hui Gong and saw a man standing front of palace, is omitted transmission, the Ai casually asked: "Is not Toneri DONG Xian-it?" The man is busy kowtowing Road: "It is DONG Xian-Xiao Chen." DONG Xian-Dong Gong is a censor's son, the Emperor Ai Xin Liu worked for Prince, or Prince, when rounding. This is a glance, Ai suddenly found a few years gone, DONG Xian longer handsome, and more than Liugongfendai still beautiful, and he can not help much love, ordered him to carry cases of attendants.
    Since then he ever loved, but by the same car, the same bed and sleep. DONG Xian not only looks like beautiful women, and conversation is also full to like women, "sex soft", "good for Mei." DONG Xian-Ai of Ai Zhishen right that can be used to describe a child. A nap, DONG Xian Ai looked on the sleeves fell asleep. Ai want to get up, but could not bear to wake up DONG Xian, readily Bajian cut off sleeves.
    Later generations of homosexuality as "cutting off a sleeve of the addiction," said the story is that so many people want to further understanding of the gay men and some common sense, attention to sexual behavior is more important than the stress. Homosexuals in need of social understanding and tolerance, but more need to take concrete action and take on the responsibility of a citizen to society.