坚强“艾友”，重拾阳光心态

坚强“艾友”，重拾阳光心态
http://news.QQ.com　 2009年10月17日05:09 　浙江在线-钱江晚报　　
　　嫁到杭州的阿珠（化名），30岁，是一名艾滋病患者。几天前，她给设在杭州六院的浙江“关爱家园”负责人时代强教授写来一封信：“时主任，你还记得我这个‘艾友’吧？谢谢你几年来的关心和帮助，村里人现在对我和老公不再害怕了，我老公当了村长，我们今年办了一个养殖场，养了一千只本鸡，十几头猪，欢迎你们来下乡走走。”

　　4年前生宝宝查出感染艾滋病

　　时代强教授一直记得这个病友。昨天上午，在杭州近郊的一处乡村，桂花香和黄澄澄的橘树遍布山野，记者随浙江省性病艾滋病防治协会、浙江“关爱家园”工作人员一起，探访了这位30岁的艾滋病患者阿珠。

　　“阿珠4年前生宝宝时被查出感染艾滋病毒，2年前发病，按照国家政策免费用药治疗，鸡尾酒疗法对她效果比较好，病情尚稳定，最万幸的是，她虽然在分娩时被查出感染HIV病毒，但丈夫和儿子都没有感染。丈夫不离不弃，他们现在自力更生，还承包了大队的山林搞养殖，是病友里的模范！”路上，时代强教授介绍着阿珠的情况，在他接触的艾滋病感染者中，心态阳光、积极生活、不言放弃的“艾友”，比例太少了。

　　车子到村口，阿珠的老公已经在等我们了，把大家带到他们承包的山上，阿珠刚刚喂好猪。“阿珠，我们来看看你的养殖场了！”时主任上前握住阿珠的手。阿珠脸色白里透红，身材高大，典型的农村女子，一点看不出生病的样子。看看方圆十几亩的养殖场，猪栏里的猪干干净净，鸡都散养在草地里，正有人给鸡窝喷撒药水，周围种的是南瓜、桑叶。

　　“时主任，多亏你们帮助，我的免疫细胞现在回升了，控制得很好，干农活一点不吃力。前几天我儿子和老公刚刚去查过，他们没事！”阿珠急着向时主任汇报自己的情况。

　　曾经心情很低落

　　开朗的阿珠说起话来像连珠炮，她现在也在和几个新病友联系，为他们做“心理辅导”。阿珠的老公告诉记者，妻子现在重拾生活的信心，多亏关爱家园的工作人员经常跟他们联系，鼓励他们。不然，曾经心情低落的妻子，可能熬不过别人的眼光。

　　一提起被查出感染艾滋病毒时的情形，阿珠的眼圈红了。“那个医生一点都没顾及我们的隐私，在走廊上大声对我老公说‘你老婆有艾滋病！’我当时死的心都有了。”当时的阿珠已经阵痛快分娩了，宫口开了七指。转院分娩来不及了，通过杭州市六医院专家的指导，做了母婴阻断的补救措施，但当时，宝宝被感染的风险很大。

　　也正是因为产前检查中没有检测出来，阿珠冒险生下了儿子。“坐月子的时候心情不好，整天哭，天气热，我就用冷水洗澡，现在落下颈椎病，每天痛。我也搞不清楚到底是抽血感染的还是纹身感染的，碰到这种事，谁能扛得住啊。”阿珠说。

　　为了儿子，她要活得好好的

　　一开始，阿珠感染艾滋病毒的事情在村里传得很快，他们家再没人登门了，老公甚至跟她商量，一起离开家乡，到没人认识的地方去。河南妹子也有一股脾气：“医生说正常生活不会传染，我要证明给他们看！”

　　现在，他们家的养殖场有亲戚帮忙，不少邻居也跟阿珠成了小姐妹，经常来聊天，有时候还来吃饭，乡亲们明白了：人家一口锅里吃饭的老公都没感染，说明没事！阿珠的老公为人厚道，4年前，还被选上做了1000多人口的行政村村长。

　　阿珠说，为了活这一口气，她和老公借了十几万元办起了养殖场，为了儿子，她也要活得好好的。现在，他们唯一担心的就是本鸡和猪肉的销路。“城里人都喜欢吃我们放养的鸡鸭，如果能找到个销路，我们还想把村里人组织起来搞养殖！”

　　时代强教授说，大多数人对艾滋病的恐惧来源于无知，无知又导致了对艾滋病的歧视。周而复始就步入了怪圈。

Strong "AI You", to regain sunshine state of mind
http://news.QQ.com 2009 Nian 10 Yue 17 Ri 05:09 Zhejiang Online - Qianjiang Evening News
Married Hangzhou E Zhu (a pseudonym), 30-year-old, is an AIDS. A few days ago, she gave six homes located in Hangzhou, Zhejiang "care home" for the Times and a professor who wrote a letter: "when the director, do you remember me, 'AI You', right? Thank you for your interest in the past few years and to help the village people are now no longer afraid of me and her husband, and my husband became a village head, this year we organized a farm, the chickens raised in 1000, a dozen pigs, to welcome you to walk around the countryside. "

4-year pre-existence to identify HIV-infected babies

He has been the times to remember this sufferers. Yesterday morning, in Hangzhou, the outskirts of a village, sweet-scented osmanthus fragrant and glistening yellow to orange trees all over the mountains, the reporter with the Zhejiang Province of STD and AIDS Prevention Society, Zhejiang "care home" together with staff, visited the 30-year-old AIDS Ezhu .

"A Zhu four years of pre-existence baby was found infected with HIV, two years ago, the disease, according to the national policy for free medication treatment, the cocktail effect is better for her condition is still stable, most fortunately, while she had given birth was found infected with HIV virus, but her husband and son are not infected. husband stubbornly persists, they are now self-reliant, but also engage in contract farming of the brigade's forests, is where patients have a model! "on the road, the Times and a professor introduces E Zhu situation, in his contact with HIV-infected persons, mind the sun, active life, without saying that to give up "AI You", the ratio too low.

Car Daocun Kou, A Zhu's husband was already waiting for us, bring us into the hills they are contracted, Ezhu just a good pig feed. "A Zhu, let's look at your farm in!" The director approached hold A Zhu's hand. A Zhu rosy complexion, tall, a typical rural woman, that can not see the sick look. Look at the radius of a dozen acres of farms where pigs pigsty clean, free-range chickens in the grass, the henhouse is someone spray syrup, surrounded by planted with pumpkin, mulberry leaves.

"The director, thanks to your help, I picked up the immune cells are now under control with a good, dry farming is not that difficult. A few days ago my son and her husband have just had to go check them all right!" A Zhu a hurry when the director of the report on their own situation.

Has been a very depressed mood

A Zhu talked like a torrent of cheerful, she and a few new patients are contacts for them to do "psychological counseling." A Zhu's husband told reporters that his wife is now regain confidence in life, thanks to the care home staff often contact them and encourage them. Otherwise, once the wife of depressed mood, may not survive the people's eyes.

A mention of HIV infection was found to the case when, A Zhu's eye socket red. "That doctor that no regard to our privacy, right out loud in the corridors, my husband said, 'your wife has AIDS!' I did have a heart to die." A Zhu was already fast delivery pain, and cervix of the 7 refers to. Transferred too late childbirth, through the expert guidance of Hangzhou six hospitals have done a PMTCT remedial measures, but when your baby is a great risk of infection.

It is exactly because prenatal care is not detected, A Zhu risk giving birth to a boy. "Confinement, when a bad mood, crying all day, the weather was hot, I wash with cold water, and now fall of cervical disease, pain every day. I am also confused in the end is a blood infection or infection of the tattoo, touch to such a thing, who can Kangde Zhu ah. "A Zhu said.

To her son, she wanted to live be properly

The beginning, A Zhu HIV transmission in the village things very quickly, their homes were Zaimei door, and her husband even discussed with her, along with leaving home, to nobody knows where to go. Henan younger sister is also the existence of a temper: "The doctor said that normal life is not contagious, I want to prove to them!"

Now, their home farms have relatives to help, many of her neighbors also became a little sister with E Zhu, often come to chat, sometimes for dinner, the villagers have to understand: the people to eat a pot no infection of her husband, indicating Nothing! A Zhu Wei Ren kind-hearted husband, four years ago, was also elected to do more than 1,000 population, the administrative head of the village.

A Zhu said that to live it breath, she and her husband borrowed a dozen million yuan from the farm to her son, she also getting along fine. Now, they only worry is that this chicken and pork sales. "City people like to eat our chickens and ducks stocking, if you can find a market for, we also want to engage in farming village, people organize themselves!"

Age-keung, said most people the fear of AIDS comes from ignorance, ignorance has led to a stigma. Cycle has gone into a vicious circle.