宋圭武观点72：为什么帮过你的人还可能会继续帮你

在现实生活中，存在这样一种现象，就是帮过你的人可能还会继续帮你，但你帮过的人未必会帮你，为什么？从经济学角度看，这也是一种基于利益考虑的必然。

帮过你的人，说明他在你身上有他的投资，若不继续帮你，很可能这笔投资就打了水漂，这对于他必然是一笔损失。而继续帮你，通过追加投资，不仅巩固了他以前的投资，还增大了未来获取收益的预期，所以，理性的人一般对帮过的人还会继续帮。

而你帮过的人，等于是他欠你的款，在这种情况下，他就有一个逃避心理。当然，多数人还是会对帮过自己的人有感恩心理的，在帮过自己的人有需要时，一般会给予帮助的，不然良心也不答应。但也有少数机会主义者，就不一定。所以，一些你帮助过的人，就不一定在你需要时会帮你。

另外，还存在的一种可能是，一些害过你的人，继续害你的可能性也会更大，为什么？因为他害过你，会估计到你对他不满，会估计到你对他有仇。在这种情况下，他会尽可能让你更少拥有各种权力和各种资源以及各种机会，以防你对他进行报复。比如，遇到提拔你，尽管你已经被他害，吃了亏，但他可能还会继续害你，阻挠提拔你，因为他怕你有了权力后报复他。再比如，遇到一些好事情，他可能会继续提供给他过去曾经帮过的人，或提供给他没有伤害过的人，但他就是不给你提供机会。

所以，害过你的人，实际在潜意识里已经把你当成了他的潜在敌人，他一般会按潜在敌人的方式来对待你，所以，尽管他已经伤害过你，但他继续伤害你的可能性会更大。而没有伤害过你的人，若伤害你，等于给自己新树立一个对立面，这对他不是一种理性选择。而过去曾经帮助过你的人，若伤害你，成本更大，所以过去帮助过你的人，必然后面继续帮你的可能性会更大。

当然，也有一些有良心的人，过去伤害过你，出于补偿心理，后面可能会补偿你。但这些人，还是会害怕报复的情况。

总之，一个良心充裕的社会，才有公正可言。而一个缺乏良心的社会，必然充满利害算计，这会导致吃亏的人更吃亏，占便宜的人更占便宜。一般结论是：社会的公正性与良心的充裕性成正比例。没有良心的社会，是不可能有社会公正的。物极必反，严重没有良心的社会，必然是一个充满恐惧的社会，必然是一个不断自我毁灭循环的社会。好，谢谢，谢谢。

Song Guiwu's point of view 72: why helped you may also continue to help you

In real life, there is such a phenomenon that helped you may continue to help you, but you helped the people may not help you, why?From the perspective of economics, this is also a kind of interest-based considerations of necessity.Helped you, that he has his investment in you, if not to continue to help you, it is likely that this investment will be lost, which is a loss for him.And continue to help you, through additional investment, not only consolidated his previous investment, but also increased the expected future earnings, so, rational people generally will continue to help the people who helped you.And you helped the people, is tantamount to he owes you money, in this case, he has a psychology of escape.Of course, most people will still have a sense of gratitude to the people who helped themselves, in the need of helping their own people, generally will give help, otherwise the conscience will not agree.But there are a few opportunists, not necessarily.So, some of the people you helped, will not necessarily help you when you need.In addition, there is also a possibility that some people who have hurt you, continue to hurt you the possibility will be greater, why?Because he has hurt you, will estimate that you are dissatisfied with him, will estimate that you have a grudge against him. In this case, he will try to make you have less power and resources and opportunities, in case you retaliate against him.For example, in the case of promoting you, although you have been hurt by him and suffered losses, he may continue to hurt you and hinder your promotion, because he is afraid that you will retaliate against him after you have power.For another example, in the case of some good things, he may continue to provide to the people he has helped in the past, or to the people he has not hurt, but he just does not provide you with opportunities.So, the person who has hurt you has actually regarded you as his potential enemy in his subconscious mind, and he will generally treat you in the way of a potential enemy. Therefore, although he has hurt you, he is more likely to continue to hurt you.And the person who has not hurt you, if he hurts you, it is equivalent to establishing a new opposite for himself, which is not a rational choice for him.And the person who has helped you in the past, if he hurts you, it costs more, so the person who helped you in the past is more likely to continue to help you in the future.Of course, there are also some people with conscience who have hurt you in the past and may compensate you out of compensation psychology.But these people are still afraid of retaliation.In short, a society with enough conscience can be just. And a lack of conscience in society, is bound to be full of interest calculation, which will lead to the loss of people more loss, take advantage of people take advantage of more. The general conclusion is: the justice of the society and the adequacy of the conscience is proportional. There is no conscience of the society, there is no social justice. Things go to extremes, serious lack of conscience of the society, is bound to be a society full of fear, is bound to be a continuous self destructive cycle of society. OK, thank you, thank you.