宋圭武观点158善良有才华的人要学会保护自己

防人之心不可无，害人之心不可有。人间多苦难，每个人要学会保护自己。

坏人多是善于保护自己的，这也是坏人的一大特点。因为不善于保护自己的坏人，其存活率必然是不高的。按照进化论原则，必然是坏人越来越善于保护自己。

而善良的人则不然。一是善良的人社会喜欢，二是善良人总是认为别人也善良。两种情况让善良的人天然缺乏保护自己的意识。所以，越是善良的人越要学会保护自己。善良人多一些防备心对自己对社会都有好处，因为社会需要更多善良人。

越是有才华的人也越要学会保护自己。因为你的才华是别人的威胁，你越有才华，对别人威胁越大，别人毁灭你的积极性也越大。

善良且有才华的人，更要学会保护自己。因为这些人遭人算计的可能性更大。

即使你与别人没有利益竞争，也要学会保护自己。因为嫉妒也会杀人。人生当战战兢兢，如履薄冰。

恶人无处不在，人性的恶总是难以消除。家庭、学校、社会、单位等，都要加强自我保护方面的教育和制度建设，自我也要有意识提升自我的保护意识和能力。

另外，面对恶，若一个社会有很多人选择明哲保身，这与恶长期得不到有效惩罚有很大关系。因为在恶长期得不到有效惩罚的情况下，一些善良的人也只能选择明哲保身。这在心理学上叫习得性无助。习得性无助也是一种博弈进化的品质均衡。而习得性无助导致的结果是恶的更加泛滥，最终形成一个恶性循环，形成一个陷阱，难以自拔。好，谢谢，谢谢。

Song Guiwu's Viewpoint 158Kind and Talented People Must Learn to Protect Themselves

The heart of prevention is indispensable, but the heart of harm is not.The world is full of suffering, and everyone must learn to protect himself.Bad people are good at protecting themselves, which is also a major characteristic of bad people.Because bad people who are not good at protecting themselves are bound to have a low survival rate.According to the principle of evolution, it is inevitable that bad people will become more and more good at protecting themselves.But good people are not.One is that good people are liked by society, and the other is that good people always think that others are good.Both situations make good people naturally lack the consciousness to protect themselves.Therefore, the more kind people are, the more they must learn to protect themselves.The more defensive the good people are, the better it is for them and for society, because society needs more good people.The more talented people are, the more they must learn to protect themselves.Because your talent is a threat to others. The more talented you are, the greater the threat to others is, and the greater the incentive others have to destroy you.The kind and talented people should learn to protect themselves.Because these people are more likely to be calculated by others.Even if you have no interest competition with others, you should learn to protect yourself.Because jealousy can kill people.Life should be trembling like walking on thin ice.Evil people are everywhere, and the evil of human nature is always difficult to eliminate. Family, school, society, unit, etc., should strengthen the education and system construction of self-protection, and self should also consciously improve the awareness and ability of self-protection. In addition, in the face of evil, if a lot of people in a society choose to keep their heads above water, this has a lot to do with the fact that evil has not been effectively punished for a long time.Because in the case that evil has not been effectively punished for a long time, some kind people can only choose to keep their heads above water.This is called learned helplessness in psychology.Learned helplessness is also a quality equilibrium of game evolution.And the result of learned helplessness is the spread of evil, and eventually form a vicious cycle, forming a trap, which is difficult to extricate themselves.OK, thank you, thank you.