It is known to all that love is the eternal emotion of human beings; people speak highly of this emotion since the ancient times. Although the human society has developed for thousands of hundreds years, there is one thing that can’t be changed, that is love always exists. To some extent, love is the common emotion between human beings and other animals. Perhaps it is the principle of all the living creatures. What is love and what can we do to deal with the emotion?
Love can’t be described by only one or two words easily. It can be divided into two parts, the generalized love and the narrow sense of love .The generalized love includes the love that we like something or we like doing something, the love between different generations, the love between friends and the love between different genders .For example, we love our country, our parents .we like some small animals and keep them as pets, we like playing table tennis and so on. The narrow sense of love is the strong emotion between different genders and we are always attracted by this strong feeling. When we first have this feeling, we may be very happy when we see him or her and you will try your best to behave yourselves; when he or she is not around you, you will feel like you have lost something .but when you meet him or her, your face will turn red and you heart will beat fast. I will talk about the narrow sense of love.
Someone think love can be divided into four characters, different characters have different meanings .the letter “L” means loyal , being loyal to your lover is the basic requirement if you want your love to last long . Once you take the attitude that you like to stay with him or her just because you want to eliminate your loneliness and you also have an affair with others, then the love will not be stable. “O” means observant , that means when you find something good ,perhaps a worthy reading book or something delicious you will like to share with him or her .He or she is always in your heart .“V” means valiant, you should be brave to face your love and work hard for your love. You also ought to have the courage to protect your lover when he or she is in danger. “O” means enjoyment. When you stay with him or her , you have the feeling that you are the happiest man in the world. You won’t be tired of the same person for a long time and that is the most important thing for you and your lovers.
There are also some other understandings for the meaning of love. They think “L” means listen. “O” is for only or obligate. “V” is for valued. “E” is for excuse .As far as I’m concerned, my understanding of view are as follows:
Love is based on the basement that you two have the same view towards life and the world; at least the views towards life and the world are not contradictory.
Love is that when you stay with him or her, you will be very happy, and you can talk happily without noticing other now and then.
Love is that when you are separated with him or her, you will miss him or her all the time and you want to know what he or she is doing.
Love is that when you are alone, you want to know send a message to him or her, but sometimes you don’t have the courage to do that and you just store the message that haven’t been sent.
Love is that when you are faced with love, you just obligate selflessly without any reward .When he or she react to your obligation, you will feel very satisfied.
Love is that when he or she is absent for the class ,you want to know the reason and when he or she is ill you will give greetings to him or her and you will accompany with him or her .
Love is that when you are old ,you can hand in hand on the way and keep romantic ,you are not regretful to accompany with him or her all your life.
Perhaps some of you are experiencing the sweetness of love ,for these ,I will say “just value it and keep it for long!”
Some of you is not experiencing the sweetness of love,for these I will say “just go for it and find your love”