近距离接触艾滋病人 华人患者婚后遇晴天霹雳
2010-07-04 03:46 来源:重庆晚报 作者:张斯瑜 曹惠良
据联合国权威机构统计,截至2010年1月,南非4932万人口中,有超过570万人为艾滋病病毒携带者。克拉克医生说,吉娜这样的小女孩在南非还有很多,“许多父母甚至在小孩出生之后,才知道原来自己有艾滋病,所以才会造成许多天生的艾滋病小孩。
说到南非,很难绕过艾滋病这一沉重的话题。
据联合国权威机构统计,截至2010年1月,南非4932万人口中,有超过570万人为艾滋病病毒携带者。15岁至19岁人群的艾滋病感染率为12.9%,20岁至24岁的感染率约为20%,最高感染率的人群是25岁至29岁,高达37.9%。无论是艾滋病人口比例,还是艾滋病患病率,南非都高踞全球之首。
不走近艾滋病人,很难了解真正的南非。日前,记者多次托人联系,终于得以走访了约翰内斯堡最大的公立医院――约堡公立医院。这座城市许多贫穷的人因为无力负担医药费,都会选择到这里来免费取药。在艾滋病专职医生克拉克的带领下,记者顺利采访了数名艾滋病患者,倾听了他们的故事。唯愿这些故事,不要再是常常重复的现实。
故事1
姓名:芭芭拉
年龄:20岁
艾滋病病史:3年
被强奸不幸
染病更不幸
医院排队领药的人群中,一个打扮有些土气,但双眼依旧不失光泽的姑娘引起了记者的注意。从记者进入医院大厅那一刻起,这个名叫芭芭拉的姑娘就始终躲闪着记者的目光,克拉克医生告诉记者:“芭芭拉的经历有些痛苦,请你注意不要伤害她。”
于是,记者小心翼翼地邀请芭芭拉坐下,并为她买了一瓶饮料,在她完全放松之后,才听到了这个极为悲惨的故事。今年20岁的芭芭拉出生于南非著名的黑人聚集地:索维托。和同龄的姑娘所不同的是,芭芭拉并没有很早就去打工,因为她有一个幸福的家庭――父母都有工作。这在索维托是非常难得的。正因如此,芭芭拉才能顺利念完中学。
然而,因为从不在街头游荡,索维托地区的黑人兄弟对芭芭拉并不熟悉。一天放学的路上,眼看就要到家的时候,芭芭拉被一名歹徒抓走,并被强奸了。“这样的事情并不少见,我们班上的一些女同学都被强奸过。”芭芭拉苦涩地说,“不过我更倒霉,因为强奸我的是一个艾滋病病毒携带者。”
从17岁患病到现在已经20岁,芭芭拉说,如果不是因为患病,她原本已经到了上大学,甚至是结婚的年龄了,“但现在,我什么都不敢想,不敢做。每周我都会来这里取药,然后打工,然后等待死亡”。
【探讨】糟糕的治安衍生的高强奸率,终于导致了芭芭拉的悲剧,也是造成南非艾滋病发病率居高不下的一大原因。
故事2
姓名:卡鲁
年龄:25岁
艾滋病病史:5年
乱性患病
无所畏惧
“看着他这副满不在乎的样子我就生气!”克拉克医生指着坐在门口椅子上戴着耳机听音乐的卡鲁向记者介绍,“他是一个南非艾滋病患者的典型。”
出生在索维托的卡鲁是个长得很帅的黑人小伙,1.9米左右的身高,加上永远挂在脸上的笑容让他非常招女孩喜欢,“我有很多女朋友,她们都很漂亮,身材很辣,嘿嘿,要不要给你介绍?”和卡鲁的聊天很开心,完全不像在采访一名艾滋病患者。
卡鲁说他是5年前的一次血检时查出艾滋病的,但什么时候感染上的他并不清楚。卡鲁现在在一家汽车销售公司上班,跳舞喝酒是卡鲁的最爱,每到周末他都会去酒吧。卡鲁说,南非的女孩很开放,他几乎每次都可以从酒吧带女孩回家过夜,有时候甚至不止一个。至于会不会采取安全措施,那要看当天晚上有没有喝多。
在卡鲁看来,性就如同生活中的吃饭穿衣一样重要。卡鲁和南非很多年轻人一样,性伙伴的数量是他们骄傲的资本,“我比较厉害,有一次在party上我一次搞定了3个美女……”
“艾滋病没什么大不了的,”卡鲁完全没拿艾滋病当回事,现在依旧过着和以前一样的生活。对于他来说生活是用来享受的,他从来没有担心过有一天艾滋病会夺走他的生命。
【探讨】这是一个对待性很开放的社会,但问题是,伴随这种无所谓的态度,他们往往觉得安全措施也无所谓。
故事3
姓名:吉娜
年龄:5岁
艾滋病病史:5年
母亲遗传
苍天无眼
在采访中,克拉克医生突然叫住了记者:“你想认识一下吉娜吗?她只有5岁,而且很开朗,她是所有我们医院艾滋病人的开心果。”说话间,一个黑人小姑娘出现在了记者面前。
“你好,我叫吉娜!”小姑娘大方地说,克拉克医生说,这个名字是医院的医生给她起的,“她妈妈生下她不久就去世了,因为艾滋病。”原来,吉娜的母亲怀上吉娜的时候就已经被查出患有艾滋病了,但由于当时胎儿已经很大了,只能把吉娜生下来。可惜吉娜还不到1岁,妈妈就去世了。
为什么没有将吉娜送到联合国的艾滋病儿童村?克拉克医生还没来得及回答,吉娜抢着说:“不,我就愿意在这里,这里很好,叔叔阿姨对我都很好,我哪儿都不想去。你不是来接我走的吧?”小姑娘一眨一眨的大眼睛充满了警惕,直到记者掏出随身带的薄荷糖,吉娜才没有生气了。
克拉克医生说,吉娜这样的小女孩在南非还有很多,“许多父母甚至在小孩出生之后,才知道原来自己有艾滋病,所以才会造成许多天生的艾滋病小孩。”最后,克拉克医生摇了摇头,“我也不知道吉娜还能活多久,我们只希望能让她在这里的每一天都开心。”
【探讨】从2007年起,南非政府实行了《2007-2011年艾滋病防治国家战略计划》,试图让保证95%的孕产妇和90%的新生儿接受艾滋病病毒检测,但至今效果甚微。
故事4
姓名:杰森・杨
年龄:43岁
艾滋病病史:4年
婚后遭遇
晴天霹雳
记者还意外地遇到了一位染上艾滋病的华人――杰森・杨。他的故事有些离奇,因为传染给他的人是他那位已经过世的妻子。
“她是一个美丽的黑人女孩,”2004年夏天,杰森在德班的沙滩上认识了一位美丽的祖鲁族女导游凯蒂。相恋半年后,两人结婚在约堡安了家。回忆起当初的那段甜蜜,杰森原本暗淡的眼睛突然有了神采,“你相信一见钟情吗?我们就是,那一年我们是世界上最幸福的人……”片刻之后,杰森回到了现实,“很多事情是预料不到的”,结婚两年后,在一次体检中,两人同时发现感染上了艾滋病,“我们结婚后,她还和另外一个男人保持着性关系”,说到这里杰森长长地叹了口气,“我是一个比较传统的中国人,很不能理解她们的想法,在他们看来,生活中除了丈夫还应该拥有一个情人”。
在和凯蒂交往的时候,杰森身边的华人都劝他冷静,“我也知道她们对性很开放,但我是个感性的人。”杰森和凯蒂一直感情很好,即便在发现感染艾滋病之后,两人也没有离婚。
杰森・杨生意做得不错,住在富人区,开着宝马车,应该算是个有钱人。治疗费对于他来说并没有太大的压力,然而精神上的压力让他陷入无边的痛苦。“我们婚前都做过检查的,都没有问题,”杰森无奈地反复强调。
【探讨】在南非,华人感染艾滋病的很少,这其中很大原因是中西方文化的差异。
总有一天会有办法的
刚到南非,有一天在约堡的街头,一个同行从后面追上来,忧心忡忡地问:刚才我跟一个陌生的南非人握手了,会不会感染艾滋病?
这次对话很让人震撼。虽然我们只是记者,能做的很少,但至少可以尽可能地去了解。
令人意外的是,南非的采访对象大体都很乐意为我们提供这些我们习惯称之为“社会阴暗面”的内容。因为在南非,艾滋病并不是一个需要十分忌讳的事情,但我们依然摆脱不了沉重的感觉,它比钻石、比黄金,甚至比抢劫更让人感觉沉重。
他们的总统祖玛说过,“艾滋病没什么可怕,洗个热水澡就没事了”。我宁愿相信前半句。
但是,我们唯一想说的也是:艾滋病没什么可怕的。它既不会通过握手传染,也有办法预防。至少,在南非,它已经不止一次地曝露在阳光下了。这至少是很好的一步,不再忌讳,不用隐瞒,那么,就像奔忙在第一线的克拉克医生,这个令人尊重的医生说的:总有一天,会有办法的。
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Close contact with AIDS patients with Chinese opportunities bolt from the blue after marriage
2010-07-04 03:46 Source: Chongqing Evening News on: Zhang Siyu Cao Huiliang
According to United Nations authority statistics, as of January 2010, South Africa, 4932 million people, there are over 570 million people living with HIV. Clark said the doctor, Gina's little girl so much in South Africa, "many parents even after the child was born only know that they have AIDS, it will cause many children born with AIDS.
Speaking of South Africa, it is difficult to bypass the heavy topic of AIDS.
According to United Nations authority statistics, as of January 2010, South Africa, 4932 million people, there are over 570 million people living with HIV. People aged 15 to 19 years of HIV infection rate was 12.9%, 20 to 24 years old infection rate is about 20%, the highest infection rate of people aged 25 to 29 years old, up to 37.9%. Whether the proportion of AIDS or AIDS prevalence, South Africa, are highest in the world.
AIDS is not approaching, it is difficult to understand the real South Africa. Recently, reporters repeatedly asked people contact, finally visited the largest public hospital in Johannesburg - Johannesburg public hospitals. The city because many poor people can not afford the medical expenses, would choose to come here to get free medicine. Full-time doctors in the AIDS under the leadership of Clark, the reporter interviewed several successful AIDS patients, listening to their stories. I only hope that these stories should not be repeated often reality.
Story 1
Name: Barbara
Age: 20 years old
AIDS history: 3 years
Unfortunately rape
Infected more unfortunate
Hospital queues and prescriptions of the crowd, a dressed some rustic, but still losing luster eyes, the girl attracted the attention of reporters. Press into the hospital lobby from the moment, this 名叫芭芭拉 girl has always dodged the eyes of journalists, doctors told Clark: "Barbara's experience some pain, please be careful not to hurt her."
Thus, Barbara's invitation to sit down carefully, and as she bought a bottle of drink, after completely relaxed in her only to hear this very tragic story. 20-year-old Barbara was born in South Africa, gathered in the famous black: Soweto. And girls the same age, the difference is that Barbara did not go early for work because she has a happy family - the parents are working. It is very rare in Soweto. For this reason, Barbara can be successfully completed secondary school.
However, because never in the street wandering, Soweto's black brothers are not familiar with Barbara. One day after school the way, appeared to be at home, when Barbara was taken away by a gang, and was raped. "This thing is not uncommon, some female students in our class have been raped." Barbara said bitterly, "but I am even more unlucky, because I was raped a HIV carrier."
Prevalence from 17-year-old has now been 20 years old, Barbara said that if not because of illness, she had been to college, and even the age of marriage, "but now, I do not dare to think, dare to do . Each week, I will come here to retrieve it, and then working, and then wait for death. "
【】 Bad law and order derivative of the high rape rate, eventually led to the tragedy of Barbara, also contributed to the high incidence of AIDS in South Africa one of the reasons.
Story 2
Name: Carew
Age: 25 years old
AIDS history: 5 years
Chaos of illness
Fearless
"Watching him this indifference I look angry!" Dr Clark pointed to a chair sitting in front of the Carew wearing headphones listening to music, told this reporter, "He is a typical South African AIDS patients."
Born in Soweto in the Karoo is a handsome black guy, 1.9 meters tall, with a smile always on his face he was recruited to girls like, "I have a lot of girlfriends, they are very beautiful tall, very spicy, Hey, want to introduce you? "and Carew chat very happy, nothing like an AIDS patient in the interview.
Carew said he was 5 years ago when a blood test to identify HIV, but when he did not clear the infection. Carew is now working at a car sales company, dancing drinking is Carew's favorite, every weekend he would go to the bar. Carew said that South Africa's girls are very open, he almost always bring girls home from the bar the night, sometimes more than one. As to whether to take safety measures, it depends on have not drunk that night.
In the Karoo seems like sex life is as important as food and clothing. Carew and South Africa, like many young people, the number of sexual partners of their arrogant, "I am more powerful, and once I am in a one-stop in the party had three beautiful ... ..."
"AIDS no big deal," Carew totally did not take AIDS seriously, and now still live life as before. For him, life is to enjoy, and he never worried about the day when AIDS will take away his life.
【】 This is a treatment of sexually open society, but the problem is with this indifferent attitude, they often think that security does not matter.
Story 3
Name: Gina
Age: 5 years
AIDS history: 5 years
Genetic mother
Heaven eyes
In the interview, Dr Clark suddenly stopped the press: "Do you think you know about Gina? She only 5 years old, and very cheerful, she is all of our hospitals pistachios AIDS." Yuehua Jian, a black girl appeared in the press before.
"Hello, my name is Gina!" The girl said generously, Clark said the doctor, the doctor's name is given to her, "her mother died giving birth to her soon, because of AIDS." So, Kyrgyzstan Na's mother, when pregnant with Gina had been diagnosed with AIDS, but because the fetus had a great time, and can only be born to Gina. Unfortunately, less than 1 year old Gina, my mother died.
Why not be sent to the United Nations AIDS Gina Children's Village? Dr Clark has not had time to answer, Gina cut in and said: "No, I will be here, here, well, aunts and uncles are all very good to me, where I do not want to go. You did not come to take me away, right? "A little girl's big eyes blinking wary until the reporter pulled out a player with the mints, Gina was not angry.
Clark said the doctor, Gina such a small girl in South Africa there are many, "Many parents and even the child was born, come to realize You AIDS, thereby giving rise to many natural AIDS child." Finally, Clark doctors shake shook his head, "I do not know Gina but also Huoduo Jiu, we just want to make her happy every day here."
Discussion】 【Since 2007, the South African government to implement the "2007-2011 National Strategic Plan on AIDS", trying to ensure that 95% of pregnant women and 90% received HIV testing of newborns, but has little effect.
Story 4
Name: Jason Yang
Age: 43 years
AIDS history: 4 years
Marriage encounter
Bolt from the blue
Reporter unexpectedly met a Chinese infected with HIV - Jason Yang. Some of his bizarre story, because those who transmitted to him was his wife who had died.
"She is a beautiful black girl," the summer of 2004, Jason on the beach in Durban to know a beautiful Zulu woman tour guide Katie. After dating for six months, the two married in Johannesburg their home. Recalled the original period of sweet, Jason had suddenly had vivid dark eyes, "Do you believe love at first sight? We are, a year when we are the happiest people in the world ... ..." Moments later, Jason back to reality , "A lot of unexpected things are the" married two years later, in a physical examination, the two also found infected with AIDS, "After our marriage, she and one other sexual relationship with a man", at this point Jason a long sigh, "I am a more traditional Chinese, it can not understand their way of thinking, in their view of life in addition to her husband should also have a lover."
Katie contacts in and when Jason tried to persuade him to cool the Chinese side, "I know they are very open to sex, but I am a sentimental person." Jason and Katie has been a very good relationship, even if found to be infected in AIDS, the two did not divorce.
Jason Young business doing well, living in wealthy areas, driving a BMW car, should be considered a rich man. Treatment costs for him and not too much pressure, but the mental pressure him into endless pain. "We have done pre-marital check, no problem," Jason reluctantly repeatedly emphasized.
Discussion】 【In South Africa, very few Chinese AIDS, much of which is the reason for the differences in Western culture.
One day there will be options
Arrived in South Africa, one day at Johannesburg's streets, a peer from behind to catch up, anxiously asked: I just like a stranger to shake hands with the South African people will not be infected with AIDS?
The dialogue is shocking people. Although we only reporters can do little, but at least as much as possible to understand.
Surprising is interviewed in South Africa in general are willing to provide us with that we used to call these "social dark side" of the content. Because in South Africa, AIDS is not a need for a very taboo thing, but we still can not shake off the heavy feeling, than diamonds, more than gold, even more than rob people feel heavy.
Their President Zuma said, "AIDS is nothing to fear, a hot bath on all right." I would rather believe the first phrase.
However, the only thing we want to say is: AIDS is nothing to fear. It is not transmitted through shaking hands, there are ways to prevent. At least, in South Africa, it has been repeatedly exposed to the sun the. This at least is a good step, no longer taboo, do not hide, then, just as bustling Clark in the first line of doctors, this is respect for the doctor to say: Someday, there will be a way.
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