小人物,大事业——走近3位禁毒志愿者


小人物,大事业——走近3位禁毒志愿者

 
 
 
 
 

小人物,大事业——走近3位禁毒志愿者 
2009年06月27日 08:00:44  来源:新华网

      新华网昆明6月26日电  题:小人物,大事业——走近3位禁毒志愿者

   新华社记者陈鹏、王研 

    云南省禁毒部门认为,近年来,全社会对吸毒者的关注度大大提升,在社会各界的关爱和鼓励下,很多吸毒者正在远离毒品、长期保持操守,这在很大程度上得益于禁毒志愿者们的无私奔波与辛勤付出。

    其实,吸毒者的内心都在呼唤一双温暖的手引领他们走出深渊。禁毒志愿者们乐于伸出这样的手,尽管他们在平常生活中如此的“微不足道”“毫不起眼”,但谁说“小人物”不能完成“大事业”?走近志愿者,可以感受这双手暖人的温度……

    邓芳:“我知道怎么帮助药物滥用者。”

    30岁的邓芳(化名)健康而漂亮,你无法看出她曾经有10年的吸毒史。她说:“谁都会走错路,关键看你怎么给自己的人生重新定位。”

   如今她在一家服装公司上班,同时也是昆明彩虹戒毒社区的一名普通志愿者,经常赶到社区和“同伴”(吸毒、戒毒者)倾心交谈。社区每次开展活动她都是主持人,台前台后笑靥如花。

   “6·26”之前她正帮助社区策划活动,一个戒毒者希望找她谈谈。她立即放下手里的活坐下来,很认真地看着对方的眼睛。“说说你的经历。”这个中年男子讲述他什么时候吸的海洛因,又是多么希望戒掉。“我想过正常人的生活,希望找个工作,努力供自己的女儿上学……”他说。

   邓芳紧紧握了握他的手,“刚开始总是非常难的,但必须挺过来。”她说了自己的故事,保持操守半年后终于找到一个工作,老板后来听说她吸过毒,找个借口把她开除了。她难过了好几个月,为什么吸毒者重新站起来那么艰难?后来,老板竟又主动给她打了电话,希望她继续上班。这次经历给了她极大触动——其实你努力了,你周围的人一定看得见,也一定会给予你信任。戒毒者最怕的就是破罐子破摔!

    邓芳的话让中年男子眼里散发出少见的神采,“好,我听你的!”

   这就是志愿者邓芳的“平凡”生活,社区里像她这样保持操守较长时间又回来做志愿者的“同伴”有10多人。她迄今已经在彩虹社区保持操守4年了,让她印象深刻的是一个打算戒毒的老人,她经常开导他,去他家里拜访他,给他洗衣服做饭,他生病了还帮他洗澡。老人最终感动得流泪,“我一定会戒掉,放心吧!”

   “我知道怎么帮助药物滥用者,因为我曾是其中的一员。”邓芳说,关键还在于全社会的氛围,尽可能伸出援手、减少歧视、提供就业岗位,他们一定还能成为有用的人。

    王玉芝:“千万别再吸毒,因为我两个女儿吸毒死了,儿子正在戒毒。”

   68岁的王玉芝(化名)住在云南开远市城郊一幢老式红砖楼房里,屋子很小,家徒四壁。白发苍苍的她提起毒品就直摇头:“我这个家,被毒品毁了……”

   她现在是开远市红十字会艾滋病病毒感染者家属关怀委员会的志愿者,隔三差五奔波于开远的大街小巷,走访那些艾滋病病毒感染者和吸毒者家庭,了解他们的生活现状,反映他们的生活困难。更多时候,她抱着厚厚的宣传册,顶着寒风和烈日走遍开远的大街小巷,劝诫孩子们千万别吸毒。她说:“我太知道毒品的危害了!因为我两个女儿吸毒死了,唯一的儿子正在戒毒!”

   她一遍又一遍重复儿子的故事:“儿子是个文艺天才,不料18岁染上毒品,她心都碎了。他每天用菜刀逼着我到处借钱,把家里能卖的东西全卖了,包括吃饭的筷子。后来我只能找一张草席睡在水泥地上。我想杀了他,但他是我儿子啊,我的亲生儿子。”

   她把儿子送进了雨露戒毒康复社区,儿子保持操守两年多了,不再碰毒品,还成了社区文艺队的编导,受到重视和好评。“他找到自信和自尊了……但是多难啊。所以,千万别吸毒!”

   她的现身说法总让那些认识或不认识的人震撼不已,而艾滋病与毒品的天然联系更让她的劝诫锋利如刀。她真的让很多家庭远离了毒品。那些半大孩子经常对她说:“放心吧王奶奶,我绝不吸毒!”

   王玉芝最大的心愿是让全开远的孩子尽可能多地了解毒品的危害。她说:“戒毒所再好也是戒毒所,再怎么保持操守,你之前吸毒的历史已经无法抹掉。所以,预防才是最好的良药!在这方面,你说得再多都嫌少!”

    陈嘉仪:“内地志愿者还远远不够……”

  32岁的陈嘉仪是香港理工大学研究生,5月份因承担课题来到昆明的两个民间戒毒社区做志愿者。她喜欢笑,在社区同伴眼中怎么看她都像一个纯真无邪的天使。

  “让药物滥用者发现自己的优点格外重要。毒品摧毁了他们的自信和自尊。志愿者最重要的职责就是帮助他们把这些失去的东西找回来。”陈嘉仪在香港的时候一直致力于社区工作,这为她积累了不少经验。来到昆明后她的方法很诱人:用鲜活的游戏潜移默化,让社区同伴在不经意间惊讶地发现另一个自我。

  “6·26”之前她正在组织一个有趣的游戏:她展开一幅人体构造图,让社区同伴依次走到前台,告诉所有人他(她)对自己的哪一部分最满意并在所说部位上拿红笔画圈。然后,其他人说出他们眼中的他(她)最迷人的部分。双方的认知或许吻合,或许完全相反。现场的气氛好得不得了,很多人很久没这么开心了。

  结论很重要:其实你有很多优点,在别人眼里的优点或许更多。

   陈嘉仪带来的不仅是人文关怀,还有更多类似的游戏和试验。这些活动看似简单,但作用不小。只有戒毒者的自信提高了,外部社会才可能出现不错的环境——谁会对一个缺乏自信的人有信心呢?其实对药物滥用应该有一个正确的认识态度,这不可怕,可怕的是随后一系列的严重后果,认识到这些是戒毒的前提。

   她觉得内地的志愿者还太少,不像香港,众多高校学生都有长期社区服务的经历,这显然更利于帮助戒毒者重返社会。她说:“希望越来越多的年轻人参与进来。帮助别人就是帮助自己——为自己创造一个更美的生活空间,难道不好吗?”
 
 

Little, big business - approached the three anti-drug volunteers
June 27, 2009 08:00:44 Source: Xinhua

       Kunming, China June 26 Xinhua: little, big business - approached the three anti-drug volunteers

Xinhua News Agency reporter Chen Peng, Wang Yan

Anti-drug departments in Yunnan Province, in recent years, the whole society's attention on the drug significantly improved in the community of love and encouragement, a lot of drug addicts is to stay away from drugs, long-term integrity, which to a large extent due to Narcotics selfless volunteers pay travel and hard.

In fact, the drug addicts in the inner call for a pair of warm hands to lead them out of the abyss. Anti-drug volunteers are happy to extend this kind of hand, despite their normal life in such a "trivial" "inconspicuous cents," but says "the little guy" can not be completed "big business"? Approached the volunteers, you can experience this hands warm temperatures ... ...

DENG Fang: "I know how to help drug abusers."

30-year-old Deng Fang (a pseudonym), a healthy and beautiful, you can not see that she has a 10-year history of drug abuse. She said: "Who would have taken the wrong road, how do you see the key to redefine your life."

   Now her work at a clothing company, rainbow, Kunming is also a common treatment of community volunteers, often went to the community and the "companion" (drug addiction, drug addicts) heart-to-heart chat. Each community activities, she is host to Taiwan after the笑靥flowery front.

"6.26" before she was to help community planning activities, one of her patients wanted to talk about. She immediately lay down their hands to sit down and live, I get down with each other's eyes. "Talk about your experience." On the middle-aged man when he sniffed heroin, but also wish to quit. "I thought of a normal life, hoping to find work, and strive for their own daughters to school ... ..." he said.

   DENG Fang shook his hand firmly, "the beginning is always very difficult, but must survive." She said the story of their own to maintain the integrity of six months after the work has finally found a boss later learned that she had drug absorption , to find a pretext for the dismissal of her. She has been sad for months, why drug addicts back on its feet so difficult? Later, the bosses take the initiative to talk about her over the phone, I hope that she continues to work. This experience gave her a great touch - in fact, your efforts, you must see the people around, they will certainly give you confidence. Patients fear most is破罐子破摔!

    Deng Fang, then let the eyes of middle-aged man look emitting rare, "well, I hear you!"

That is the volunteer DENG Fang's "ordinary" life, and the community to maintain her integrity as a long time to come back and volunteer to do the "companion" of 10 people. She has been so far the community to maintain integrity in the Rainbow 4 years, she was impressed by a plan to detoxification of the elderly, she always taught him to visit him at his home, cooking and washing clothes for him, he is sick also helped him take a bath. People eventually moved to tears, "I will quit, go home!"

"I know how to help drug abusers, because I was one of them." Deng Fang said that the key issue is the atmosphere of the whole society, as far as possible, help to reduce discrimination, to provide jobs, they can become useful people.

Yuzhi: "Never stop drug abuse, drug abuse because I have two daughters died, his son is drug treatment."

68-year-old Yuzhi (a pseudonym) living in Yunnan开远市an old-fashioned red brick suburban house, the house is very small,家徒四壁. White-haired, she shook her head against the drug on the straight: "I am home, destroyed by drugs ... ..."

She is now a Red Cross开远市the families of HIV-infected volunteers care for the Commission, Kaiyuan隔三差五go on the streets, visited those who were HIV-infected drug addicts and families to understand the status of their lives, reflect their the difficulties of life. More often, she had thick brochure, under the scorching sun wind and Kaiyuan around the streets, children do not discourage drug abuse. She said: "I was too aware of the dangers of drugs! Because two of my daughters died of drug abuse, drug addiction treatment is the only son!"

She repeated over and over again the story of his son: "My son is a literary genius, But 18-year-old infected with drugs, her broken heart. His day around with a kitchen knife forced to borrow money from me to sell things at home can be sold whole, including the chopsticks to eat. Later, I can only find a mat to sleep on a concrete floor.想杀I had him, but he is my son, ah, my son. "

   Her son into a drug rehabilitation community rain, his son more than two years to maintain integrity, and no longer touch the drug, but also became the team's director of community art, attention and praise. "He found the self-confidence and self-esteem ... ... But more than难啊. Therefore, please do drugs!"

   Her total for those who recognize their own experiences or those who do not know very much shocked, and AIDS and drugs made her a natural link如刀sharp advice. She really let a lot of families to stay away from drugs. A half children who often told her: "Grandma Wang worry, I do not drugs!"

Yuzhi biggest wish is to allow wide-open as much as possible from the children about the dangers of drugs. She said: "Drug Addiction Treatment Addiction Treatment Center is also good, and then how to maintain integrity, you have been before the drugs can not erase history. Therefore, prevention is the best medicine! In this regard, the more you do it all too few! "

陈嘉仪: "China is still far from enough volunteers ... ..."

32-year-old is the Hong Kong Polytechnic University陈嘉仪graduate students, and commitment to the subject in May came to Kunming from the two communities volunteer civil detoxification. She likes to laugh, in the community, how the eyes of her companions are a pure and innocent as an angel.

"Let's drug abusers found that the advantages of their more important. Drug destroys their self-confidence and self-esteem. Volunteers the most important duty is to help them find what they lost back."陈嘉仪time in Hong Kong has always been committed to community work, This has a lot of experience she has accumulated. Kunming came after the way she is very attractive: the use of fresh games nurture community companions inadvertently surprised to find another self.

  "6.26" before she is organizing an interesting game: She plans to start a human body structure, let the community come to his front in order to tell all of his (her) on their own and to which part of the most satisfying on the mentioned site Take红笔circle. Then, other people say they see him (her) some of the most charming. Cognitive fit between the two sides may, perhaps quite the contrary. The atmosphere at the scene very, very good, a lot of people not so happy a long time.

  Very important conclusion: In fact, you have many advantages, in the eyes of the merits of others may be more.

   Brought about not only陈嘉仪humane care, and more similar to the game and test. These activities may seem simple, but not a small role. Only the patients to improve self-confidence, and external community environment may be good - who lack self-confidence of a people who have faith in us? In fact, drug abuse should have a correct understanding of attitude, this is not terrible, horrible thing is that the serious consequences of the subsequent series, recognizing that these are a prerequisite for treatment.

   She felt that the Mainland is also too few volunteers, unlike Hong Kong, many college students have long-term community service experience, which is obviously more beneficial to help patients to reintegrate into society. She said: "I hope more and more young people involved. Is to help others help themselves - for themselves and create a more beautiful living space, are not you?"
 
 
 
 
 

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