台商寻花问柳染上艾滋病 妻挣扎后不离不弃
2009年01月06日 14:47 来源：中国新闻网
中新网1月6日电 如果配偶因寻花问柳染上艾滋病，你会怎么办？
据台湾《联合报》报道，台湾南投县一名43岁的刘姓商人早年在岛内经营庭园咖啡，获利不少，五年前和友人合伙到广东东莞开复合式餐厅。他很好客，下班后常和友人喝花酒，偶尔会去“有粉味的酒店”寻花问柳。
前年他患感冒后一直没痊愈，后来证实罹患艾滋病。他看到报告后，有如晴天霹雳，整天把自己关在房间里，也不敢回广东的店里，直到合伙人一再打电话来催，他才坦白告诉家人。
妻子作为生意伙伴，一起打拼到结褵成家，听到老公染爱滋，根本难以接受，“当时觉得人生顿时看不见阳光，”她说，两名上大学的儿女，得知父亲染上爱滋，都觉得很没面子，气得不和爸爸说话；有亲友得知老公自大陆返台，到家里泡茶，丈夫也避不见面。
她心里几经挣扎，才重新面对现实，认为丈夫此刻最需要的是她。她先替丈夫申办爱滋医疗卡，以便免费就医治疗，也得知目前的医疗水平，只要配合治疗，艾滋病患仍可正常地生活，不会危及生命。
于是她信心倍增，决定抛下台湾的生意，陪丈夫回到东莞的餐厅工作。她细心照料并用心圆谎，诿称丈夫的病是“封闭型肺结核”。她的不离不弃，让丈夫很感动，积极配合服药，也找回家人的亲情。
“这时候，只有做妻子站出来力挺，才能恢复丈夫的求生意志。”卫生部门人士说，有些艾滋病患会被家人放弃，尤其身为配偶，更是最不能忍受，“这位妻子是很少见有爱心又有智慧的。”刘姓男子目前病情稳定，每半年返台复诊，免疫力指数都控制得很好。
Taiwan寻花问柳infected with AIDS after his wife struggling不离不弃
At 14:47 on January 6, 2009 Source: China News Network
By January 6 because of power if the spouse寻花问柳infected with AIDS, how you will do?
According to Taiwan's "United Daily News" reported that Taiwan's Nantou County, a 43-year-old Liu businessmen operating on the island early garden coffee, a lot of profit, five years ago, and friends who came to Guangdong's Dongguan, a partner opened the restaurant complex. He very well off, often after work and drink花酒friends occasionally would go to "have粉味the hotel"寻花问柳.
The year before last, he is suffering from flu has been no recovery, later confirmed AIDS. He saw the report, like a bolt from the blue, the whole day locked himself in a room, we did not dare return to the store in Guangdong, until the partner has repeatedly called来催, he frankly told his family.
As a business partner of his wife, married together hard to get married, I heard her husband dyed AIDS, it is extremely difficult to accept, "then suddenly feel that life can not see the sun," she said, two sons and daughters to college and learned that his father contracted AIDS have the feeling that the很没面子, anger and father do not speak; have relatives from the mainland was informed that her husband returned home to tea, the husband also does not meet bullet.
After she struggled to restart face the reality that most needed at the moment her husband was her. Her first husband's bid for AIDS medical card in order to free medical treatment, was also informed that the current medical standards, as long as with the treatment, AIDS can be a normal life, not life-threatening.
Confidence she decided to cast off Taiwan's business, to accompany her husband to return to work in Dongguan restaurant. She listened carefully and attentively care圆谎, blames her husband's disease is called "closed tuberculosis."不离不弃her so that her husband was moved to and actively cooperate with medication, but also to find the family relationship.
"At this moment, only the support of the wife to stand up in order to restore her husband's will to live." Said the health sector, some suffering from AIDS will be the family to give up, especially as a spouse, but also the least able to endure, "the wife is very rare wisdom and caring. "Liu caste men currently in stable condition, follow-up visits every six months to return to Taiwan, the immunity index are controlled very well.
At 14:47 on January 6, 2009 Source: China News Network
By January 6 because of power if the spouse寻花问柳infected with AIDS, how you will do?
According to Taiwan's "United Daily News" reported that Taiwan's Nantou County, a 43-year-old Liu businessmen operating on the island early garden coffee, a lot of profit, five years ago, and friends who came to Guangdong's Dongguan, a partner opened the restaurant complex. He very well off, often after work and drink花酒friends occasionally would go to "have粉味the hotel"寻花问柳.
The year before last, he is suffering from flu has been no recovery, later confirmed AIDS. He saw the report, like a bolt from the blue, the whole day locked himself in a room, we did not dare return to the store in Guangdong, until the partner has repeatedly called来催, he frankly told his family.
As a business partner of his wife, married together hard to get married, I heard her husband dyed AIDS, it is extremely difficult to accept, "then suddenly feel that life can not see the sun," she said, two sons and daughters to college and learned that his father contracted AIDS have the feeling that the很没面子, anger and father do not speak; have relatives from the mainland was informed that her husband returned home to tea, the husband also does not meet bullet.
After she struggled to restart face the reality that most needed at the moment her husband was her. Her first husband's bid for AIDS medical card in order to free medical treatment, was also informed that the current medical standards, as long as with the treatment, AIDS can be a normal life, not life-threatening.
Confidence she decided to cast off Taiwan's business, to accompany her husband to return to work in Dongguan restaurant. She listened carefully and attentively care圆谎, blames her husband's disease is called "closed tuberculosis."不离不弃her so that her husband was moved to and actively cooperate with medication, but also to find the family relationship.
"At this moment, only the support of the wife to stand up in order to restore her husband's will to live." Said the health sector, some suffering from AIDS will be the family to give up, especially as a spouse, but also the least able to endure, "the wife is very rare wisdom and caring. "Liu caste men currently in stable condition, follow-up visits every six months to return to Taiwan, the immunity index are controlled very well.